So true. Once bitten twice shy.. Im 32 nearly and only 1 mate i had.when i started going out with a guy,his pal was seeing her. We wer mates from april last yr until august. So 4mths.. She was lovly..proper girly like me.enjoyd girly stuf.Evrything i said she agreed with.she said soul sisters! Same minds ect..she seemed sweet and nice. Her relationship was from one to anuther neva settled.and i was ther for her always.lifts,place to stay.ect. When i dumped my ex. Same week she moved in with him(as lodger). And then she turned on me.sayin i was phyco and weird. Eh!! Id done nowt but be too kind to her. Anyway. I never want a mate again..never! Dont trust girls! Im hurt and stil confused,used and abused.