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Hi! Everyone, Im back again anyways Im gonna post this topic here so everybody can read it even guests.

I been really down inside my head, i felt really insecure about myself, i never trust anybody , i tried to smile and laugh most of the time and hide what im really feeling, i been avoiding people scared of rejection that I dont have much to offer them this comes down to what im made of which isnt really much, my lack of skills, lack of knowledge, lack of a better look yep that one too, everything is all because Im nothing.

Im 23 (October 5) and seems like I been wasting all my time, effort and money. everything for me is just a smooth line , repetitive and not changing, i need this line to go in a different direction hopefully somewhere along the top.

And now I met this girl... who i think had made me open my eyes..(same girl) or maybe she just added to my stock and stock of sadness until I cant take it no more! Im done feeling so miserable im done thinking Im done feeling insecure about myself! I cant just accept that Im just gonna be feeling like this for the rest of my life! I cant just sit here watch myself rot in the corner feeling sorry for myself! Its not going to change anything!! I failed and failed and waiting for something good to happen.. I cant wait any longer! This has got to change!

Theres only one thing i know that can help me pull this off and this one is the hardest thing I need to do. Be PROUD of who you are. Self acceptance is the key to escape from the darkness you had long stayed and familiar with. Gather up all my sadness gather up all the anger, the loneliness, the bitterness. And use them to your advantage. I been so idle and done so much thinking now DO SOMETHING about it! somewhere along the track someone might get hurt but dont think about it you been so miserable for too long! its your time to shine!

Yes you accepted that youre just gonna be a bum all your life and then what? You just gonna sit there watch stupid shows on tv? browse the net over and over again looking at ur myspace every 5 minutes? Where you could have been learning something new, doing something new, for the 5 minutes youve wasted?? Yes you are a bum I get that , is that it for you? We only have once chance in this life, theres got to be 1 thing your good at even though you havent found it yet, ask yourself what do you enjoy doing the most? okei let say you like to watch movies, and likes to critic stuff so what if your good at something like this doesnt mean you cant use it! LOt of us can say theres other people whos successful now doing a job not along the line of their skills and talent. But HOW did they get there??? They DID SOMETHING! Even a tiniest effort at a time every 5 minutes of ur life instead of lying on the bed thinking the same thing over and over again, STOP IT! u done enough thinking, now spend every 5 minutes of your life doing SOMETHING! learning something new, read books, take any opportunity that may come along, and if you are stuck in the house IDLE because theres no choice grab something in the house a book to read, or go online searching for info, looking at variety of things other than ur myspace, well okei you can look at it like every now and then but limit yourself twice or 3 times a day of checking is suffiecient.

SO your feeling lonely and depressed , ask yourself is there a way out of it? well no theres no way out of it once your feeling lonely and depressed thats it. BUT is there anything you can do to stop feeling that way? if theres none which mostly is the case, why would let yourself FEELING miserable while others you care for DONT EVEN GIVE A DAMN CARE or DONT EVEN know your feeling like this for you???! Okei you care for them too much that it hurts, yea we get that its painful what do you think theyre doign now? do they know that youre hurting? do they even bother to stop and think how you are doing? while here you are feeling ****** and crappy as always, there they are having the time of their life!!! Doesnt sound fair right? You been hurt so much..its tearing you up inside, use it!

You only get 1 chance... You we, I suffered enough. if still doesnt sink go out for a while outside the house! enjoy the sunny day, take a stroll, look up in the sky, the clouds go by.. make yourself at peace. You will come to realise its about time, its about time. I have to do something! I may fail and fall but I BEEN THERE theres nothing I cant handle! I will just get up my feet and realize it didnt hurt that much its because you are use to being hurt , you been miserable and you know the feeling. Theres only one thing left to do. Keep on getting up , keep on trying. dont stay on the floor.. you been there, it was empty theres nothing there, its loneliness, its pain, you felt it so many times you cant even measure how much it went down on you... YOU ARE USED to the pain, NOW USE IT to your advantage! you are invincible! DO SOMETHING about IT!

Note to myself and everyone else :) Count me in! Will you join me?
 
MisterD said:
You only get 1 chance... You we, I suffered enough. if still doesnt sink go out for a while outside the house! enjoy the sunny day, take a stroll, look up in the sky, the clouds go by.. make yourself at peace. You will come to realise its about time, its about time. I have to do something! I may fail and fall but I BEEN THERE theres nothing I cant handle! I will just get up my feet and realize it didnt hurt that much its because you are use to being hurt , you been miserable and you know the feeling. Theres only one thing left to do. Keep on getting up , keep on trying. dont stay on the floor.. you been there, it was empty theres nothing there, its loneliness, its pain, you felt it so many times you cant even measure how much it went down on you... YOU ARE USED to the pain, NOW USE IT to your advantage! you are invincible! DO SOMETHING about IT!

Note to myself and everyone else :) Count me in! Will you join me?

My sentiments exactly. ;)
That makes me in right? I'll join you in this :)
 
lol applause :D (i like bumming though..can't hate on bumming..learning is good, but only in moderation..lol)

but as for everything else..yea.
you know i think the people here (on this site)..they maybe depressed and sad sometimes, but it can't be said that they are doning nothing about it...maybe what they do doesnt work (for some of them it does lol). But i know of depressed people who do nothing....lonely people who wouldnt come near this site lol.
sorry about my speech ..i agree with you and all that Do sOmething... make your life comfortable (or happy....so make friends if you are lonely, be productive if you are bored, change the things in your life that make you sad if you are depressed...sometimes it seems as though there is no way out..but most times we just aren't being creative enough :)
 
yep Lets do the best we can the someday in the future il go back to this site if still exist and tell you about how I went. Thank you

mink said:
MisterD said:
You only get 1 chance... You we, I suffered enough. if still doesnt sink go out for a while outside the house! enjoy the sunny day, take a stroll, look up in the sky, the clouds go by.. make yourself at peace. You will come to realise its about time, its about time. I have to do something! I may fail and fall but I BEEN THERE theres nothing I cant handle! I will just get up my feet and realize it didnt hurt that much its because you are use to being hurt , you been miserable and you know the feeling. Theres only one thing left to do. Keep on getting up , keep on trying. dont stay on the floor.. you been there, it was empty theres nothing there, its loneliness, its pain, you felt it so many times you cant even measure how much it went down on you... YOU ARE USED to the pain, NOW USE IT to your advantage! you are invincible! DO SOMETHING about IT!

Note to myself and everyone else :) Count me in! Will you join me?

My sentiments exactly. ;)
That makes me in right? I'll join you in this :)
 
LOL jale, uhmmm i think u do much more bumming than learning lol :p haha il see u on msn mate haha

jales said:
lol applause :D (i like bumming though..can't hate on bumming..learning is good, but only in moderation..lol)

but as for everything else..yea.
you know i think the people here (on this site)..they maybe depressed and sad sometimes, but it can't be said that they are doning nothing about it...maybe what they do doesnt work (for some of them it does lol). But i know of depressed people who do nothing....lonely people who wouldnt come near this site lol.
sorry about my speech ..i agree with you and all that Do sOmething... make your life comfortable (or happy....so make friends if you are lonely, be productive if you are bored, change the things in your life that make you sad if you are depressed...sometimes it seems as though there is no way out..but most times we just aren't being creative enough :)
 
I hate to rave, but it sound like your talking as you type?

Now that out of the way, I would love to be each and everyone of you guy and gal friends. I myself have my own success story at the age of 18. I have a couple of really good friends who would even actually try to get me a girlfriends. I get call 10 or 20 times a day asking if I want to go to the dinning hall, downtown, the beach, cafe, Joe bars, the theater, and ect...

The thing for me that work was just be yourself. I do the usual say hi ask about their major to every person. Now I finally found good friends and I did nothing different from what I would say when I meet new people. So keep on looking, if you feel like you don't fit in a crowd, look somewhere else. If you feel like you don't fit in a school, stick it out for as long as you can, and if your in H.S, tell your parent you want to go to another H.S. Trust me, would you want to be in a H.S. with no friend for a couple more years? Trust me, or else you might regret ever having a chance to make some real friends.

That is all the advice I can give you.
 
i agree, the world is a big place, with so many things to do, places to go, people to see, things to learn.

but me, i like to take things slowly, step by step.

im 27/male, no job, not smart, no gf, 3 true friends only, no money.

but i believe im good at something, i just don't know it yet!

I WOULD ALSO LIKE TO THINK THAT A BEAUTIFUL LIFE IS A POSSIBILITY, even for people like me!

good luck to all of us!

i would really like to hear succes stories from people like us, to inspire me.

please email me your succes stories: [email protected]
 

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