red flag

[ucxb]

I often wonder if a nervous person could be considered a red flag?

There are a few times I tried the honest approach instead of faking it and just let new people in my life know when I am nervous and uncomfortable. Once I do communicate it it seems to change the relation entirely and I feel that I can not express when I am nervous.

 

[ajdass1]

What changed when you let people know that you're feeling nervous? How did they respond?

 

[ladyforsaken]

Yeah, what were the reactions? I don't see how nervousness can be a red flag in relationships? Everyone gets nervous. At least that's what I think.

 

[SophiaGrace]

Are you afraid of being vulnerable?

 

[ucxb]

I guess it is a possibility that I may have shared my feelings with the wrong people at an inappropriate time.

SophiaGrace - I am not afraid of vulnerability. At this very moment I do not think it is fear that I feel but mostly that I am not ready to trust.