reputation

[EveWasFramed]

I noticed that someone has taken a negative interest in my opinions.
Bluey (a lovely soul) and Naleena (a heart of gold) have given me a positive reputation. Alas, it was not to last. I see that someone doesn't care for my opinions. See below.

Comments
sleepflower (2) - Last updated Yesterday, 02:58 PM
Negative: patronising and self opinionated

Merriam-Webster says:
Definition
Self-opinionated: stubbornly holding to one's own opinion.

Well, my opinions are indeed MY OWN! I don't give a rat's ass who doesn't like them. I don't think that the "reputation" section of this forum should be used as a tool to spite someone just because you don't agree with everything they say.
I feel that you have taken a personal dislike to me because you don't agree with my opinions. Well, that's your perogative. It's ALSO your right to ignore me. Please, feel free to exercise that right immediately. And as for the negative reputation, I could respond in kind, but I'm too mature to resort to SPITE. Have a nice day.

 

[Bluey]

Hi there EveWasFramed, Well not everyone well get on so well with one another. just as in real life there well be ppl here you don't see eye to eye with. I do have ppl in other placers on the nets where I go that everyone loves and I can't see why but for me the person dose not like me and I don't like him. Well I don't dislike him I just don't see why he don't like me. This well happen and its fine by me.

The way I see it is if you have been given a negative rep then this just means your not frightened to speak your mined.

If you really have a problem with anyone the best thing to do is just use the Ignore function that we have.

 

[EveWasFramed]

Hi there EveWasFramed, Well not everyone well get on so well with one another. just as in real life there well be ppl here you don't see eye to eye with. I do have ppl in other placers on the nets where I go that everyone loves and I can't see why but for me the person dose not like me and I don't like him. Well I don't dislike him I just don't see why he don't like me. This well happen and its fine by me.

The way I see it is if you have been given a negative rep then this just means your not frightened to speak your mined.

If you really have a problem with anyone the best thing to do is just use the Ignore function that we have.

Thanks, Bluey. You're such a kind person. The negative rep doesn't bother me, just the idea that someone thinks I don't have a right to my own opinions. But it's all good because I will certainly continue to say exactly what I think, lol.

(((hugs)))

 

[Jeremi]

Negative reputation seems so harsh. Do we really need that function on this forum? Sure, some people doesn't care, but there are some who might.

Glad to hear there are no hard feelings Eve. Keep on sharing your opinion, that's what we want to hear ^^

 

[EveWasFramed]

Negative reputation seems so harsh. Do we really need that function on this forum? Sure, some people doesn't care, but there are some who might.

Glad to hear there are no hard feelings Eve. Keep on sharing your opinion, that's what we want to hear ^^

Thanks, Jeremi, will do!

 

[Bluey]

Do we really need that function on this forum?

This I question myself. I know other moderators do as well. To be given a negative rep on a forum like this I don't think is such a good thing even if honestly done.

If it had been given by a troll/spammer it would had been deleted by now. But its been given by another respected member and that's her honest opinion.

As I say just like IRL there are going to be ppl that don't see eye to eye.

Best thing everyone else can do is not get involved and respect both ppl.
Hopefully if left to it ppl well resolve there differences on there own.

 

[Minus]

Do we really need that function on this forum?

I never liked the reputation function at all. On a board that has more then it's share of people who feel isolated, neglected or left out, rating them or a lack of ratings has the potential of enhancing those negative feelings for some.

 

[Jeremi]

Do we really need that function on this forum?

I never liked the reputation function at all. On a board that has more then it's share of people who feel isolated, neglected or left out, rating them or a lack of ratings has the potential of enhancing those negative feelings for some.

Very true words. Sure, it's nice to give someone reputation to tell them that you like or appreciate them, but some people will be left out or forgotten, and that number under your name says it all. I could certainly live without the system, even though I'm thankful for the reputation points that I've gotten from all you nice people ^^

 

[Minus]

While i realize many people don't mind it, my concern if for the people who are hurt by it as in this post...

... then come to the lonely forum and feel even more rejected because everyone has online friends except me (F@#$ the reputation points system. What the hell is something like that doing on a forum for people who are easily hurt by feelings of isolation and exclusion?!)

So, what do I do? Do I start a new forum for rejects of the Lonely Life forum?

 

[GHOSTNYOURMIST]

I noticed that someone has taken a negative interest in my opinions.

At least someone noticed you. I've been here 4 months and only have 1 vote. (Thanks Doll!) Even here I'm just a ghost.

 

[EveWasFramed]

I noticed that someone has taken a negative interest in my opinions.

At least someone noticed you. I've been here 4 months and only have 1 vote. (Thanks Doll!) Even here I'm just a ghost.

lol, you're noticed. I know where Halle Berry shops. Hit me up! j/k

 

[GHOSTNYOURMIST]

lol, you're noticed. I know where Halle Berry shops. Hit me up! j/k

Thanks! But I don't have a thing to wear.
Guess if I'm invisible I could just go NEKKED! Now that would be a sight. EERRR maybe not.

 

[Incognita]

Comments
sleepflower (2) - Last updated Yesterday, 02:58 PM
Negative: patronising and self opinionated

And since when it's a negative thing?

I just added a respect for that. I think it's great.

 

[Incognita]

I never liked the reputation function at all. On a board that has more then it's share of people who feel isolated, neglected or left out, rating them or a lack of ratings has the potential of enhancing those negative feelings for some.

+1

 

[EveWasFramed]

Comments
sleepflower (2) - Last updated Yesterday, 02:58 PM
Negative: patronising and self opinionated

And since when it's a negative thing?

I just added a respect for that. I think it's great.

lol, it's NOT a negative thing in my opinion.

cheers

 

[NeverMore]

Comments
sleepflower (2) - Last updated Yesterday, 02:58 PM
Negative: patronising and self opinionated

And since when it's a negative thing?

I just added a respect for that. I think it's great.

lol, it's NOT a negative thing in my opinion.

cheers

Then I'll add it as a positive

 

[Bluey]

You ppl are all amazing... Its an honer to be a moderator here.

 

[Incognita]

On one of the other forums ive seen something like "thanks for this post" unders each post...I think its much better. And more posts with jokes and inspirations would be noticed and thanked for.

I don't know if its visible enough but it sorta looks like this

 

[EveWasFramed]

You ppl are all amazing... Its an honer to be a moderator here.

YOU are amazing, Bluey!

 

[EveWasFramed]

RogueTomato Wrote:
... then come to the lonely forum and feel even more rejected because everyone has online friends except me (F@#$ the reputation points system. What the hell is something like that doing on a forum for people who are easily hurt by feelings of isolation and exclusion?!)

So, what do I do? Do I start a new forum for rejects of the Lonely Life forum?"


How odd. I never saw that post, and I looked for it twice....