Should I give up on relationships?

[hiro94]

Before I begin I guess I should try my best to describe myself first. I am a 21 year old white male 5 foot 7 inches tall and I am medium/skinny body type. I have not had a serious relationship since I was 17 and I feel like women just don't like me or there's something wrong with my personality. I don't like to call myself a nice guy because lets be honest women do not like a self proclaimed nice guy so I'm just gonna leave it at I'm a good guy.I don't drink I don't do drugs and I try to treat others with respect as long as they respect me.(not judging anyone who does drink or do drugs to each their own) I am a generally happy person and I am in my second year of college.I am in a club and I also work at my college as a front desk receptionist so needless to say I am very social. But the one thing missing in my life that I yearn for is a companion. I'm not the kind of guy who is desperate for a girl but everyone I like or show interest In rejects me. It sucks too because everyone around me is dating and getting married and I'm just single because I just can't find a girl who likes me for me. A lot of the same girls I've liked will reject me then go out with some ****** who treats them like crap.I also have a wide taste in women I really like black and hispanic girls and like girls of my own race to a lesser extent. I have asked out 8 girls in the last 4 years and have been rejected by 7 of them.The other one I went on a date with that seemed to go really good but then eventually she told me she didn't want to date any more. I just feel like such a loser and I feel like I'm gonna end up alone.I am also still a virgin so that doesn't help matters. I have had one girl show me a lot of attention in the last month. Inthe last week or so I keep getting mixed signals from her.I wanna ask her out or ask her if she likes me but after so much rejection I don't even wanna bother. I did have one girl agree to go out with me back in July but coming to find out she had a boyfriend so I called off the date before it even happened.Does anyone have any advice for me or experiencing the same problems?(sorry about the double post it won't let me delete it.

 

[Danielle]

Hi Hiro,

No, You should not give up on relationships. You are a young man, and no doubt, easy on the eyes, and you seem to have a nice way about you. You will find someone... it takes longer for some of us, but its worth it...even if it is just casual, fun dating.

Don't worry about other women turning you down, don't worry about being a virgin. None of that matters. Enjoy your youth, have fun, meet lots of people and if a relationship happens, then awesome.

Don't give up on yourself!