Something missing

[Fustar]

I am truly happy in my life right now, but I have always felt like something is missing. I'm about to finish college, and then apply to the police academy. Which has been a dream of mine for a long time, I've just been trying to finish school. I'm starting to do all the things I used to have fun doing, and I am very much enjoying them, I'm even trying many new things. If its fun and interesting I love doing it. I am very happy, yet I have this nagging loneliness that won't leave me. I'm not sure what to do about it, considering it seems hard for good people to meet other good people. It seems the only ones in love are the ones that don't belong together. Maybe that's just my short sided view based on the few relationships i have observed that ended in utter madness. I just don't know how I would find someone to connect with, let alone find a good woman to spend the rest of my life with. Anyone have any advice? Either on the finding love thing, or the loneliness.

 

[Veruca]

Hey Futstar,

Glad to know that you're doing well. I'm hardly the expert on dating but I guess you just have to actively try to ask women out and keep trying until you meet someone special. Maybe pick someone you've seen or know who seems interesting or attractive and give it a shot?

From what I can tell, and to quote the members here, its a numbers game.