take a look at your life ~by tiger

[Syber Tiger]

today this morning (9\25\2011) a 9 year old got hit by a car real hard his leg got ripped off

9years old...lost a leg verry painfully
he wont be able to play soccer or eny sport with his friends,or be able to drive a car,or to run around etc.

this is only one thing that happend theres a lot of worce things

most of us here got all our limbs and stuff can see,smell etc...

i know emotional pain hit,i realy know how it feels,

just imagine you life with out a limb,or being blind

being blind,never seeing the sun,sky,flowers,your parkner think how pain full that must be emoteanlay,

we r lonely and got sosial probs/disorders i dont say its nothing but its better to have than that not to see,or to walk?

lonely vs blind.... u diside

i know its easyer said than done,i dont tel u to do enything but just be gratfull for what u have,i complain alot about thing i want but that i DON'T need...

next time if u wanna kill yourself or feeling like doing it,think that someone in this world will die to life your life,

to those that have parents but dont like them,i know they can be a pain in the ass,but they care albout u they know more about life than u do,

i never met my dad so i know how it is to grow up with only a few fam members,my grand pa died,my mom ant marryed,so i have a little famaly witch i sometimes make mad at smallthing and say thing i dont mean,its normal,but try to hande them with respect

i tryed that last week and it make a big dif,u WILL feel more happy and less depressed it sounds weird but ya it worked for me u should try it

so what if ppl make fun of you if u did something F==K them , they only lol at thing they can do better than u but if they dont lol they cant do it and how mutch of the time they dont lol at u ,even if it dont feel like it its tru...

confedents is weird thing everyone bulds it on a diff way,i find that a smallthing can give u it

walk with your chin up,i know u have heard it b4 but it actuly works,it make me feel better about myself,so try it it may work for you....

so wats the point of this thread,i wanted to say a few thing but as soon as i stareted tiping i tipe

ENJOY LIFE WITH WHAT U HAVE ,RATHER THAN HATE IT WITH THAT WHAT U DONT HAVE ~Tiger

I KNOW ITS HARD TO UNDERSTAND WHAT I TIPE (xd)
BUT U DONT HAVE TO UNDERSTAND EVERYTHING THERE ARE SOME CLEAR PARTS THAT SUMMS THE WHOLE THING UP,AND TO THOSE THAT DONT GET IT READ IT AGAIN MABY U WILL GET IT THAN
I TIPE IN CAPS SO U CAN SEE IT...
THIS POINT OF THIS ARTICE IS TO MAKE U RELISE HOW LUCKEY WE REALY ARE,NOT GRATE LIFE LIKE WE WANT IT TO BE,BUT WE'R ALL LUCKEY
THERE WILL ALWAYS BE PERSONS BETTER THAN US BUT ALWAY PEOPLE WORCE THAN US WE ALL IN THE MIDDLE NO ONES PERFECT

What you said is very strong and very important. It is simple too, though most dont notice it. If we could all just think a bit about what we already have, we'd feel better. If one realises what they have, they wouldnt run away after what they dont have.

 

[annik]

That little more will maybe be able to do all those things. I read an article about a uni student who lost both her legs to meningitis. She's now walking even dancing (if in her own words badly!) has a boyfriend and a good social life.

I've never held with that idea that you aren't allowed your own emotions because people are worse off. After all that would mean about 90% of people in the western world wouldn't be allowed to be sad.

Anyway I get the be grateful for what you have part I'm just not sure what the blind and disabled have to do with it.

 

[Syber Tiger]

yes,its hard to understand what i say (XD)

the blind part,well its u cant see,so what life is that,the things we see everyday and misslook they cant see it and want to see it verry badly (it falls under the grateful part)
disabled well its not hard to firure it out

i dont get that emotionaly part ur talking aobut ho

i will edit the main post with exstra info

 

[annik]

When I say I don't see what its got to do with it. I do understand but I don't think you can say all blind people are desperate to see or that its right to use them as an example of why we should be grateful. I mean people who are blind from birth know no different. It's just life to them.
I think you should look at what's good in your life and be grateful for it but also everyone has a right to their feelings. I just hate this constant thing about the blind / disabled. As if we should be grateful we aren't them because somehow we are better. Heck I don't know.

 

[Syber Tiger]

did i say u artn alowed to have your own emotions?

we all have the freedom of exspressing oure emotions...

and just forget the blind/disabled part...
its not about being better....

 

[Drama]

Hey Tiger, dear;

Thanks for this thread. You are a very good person and very brave too. (oh yes I know you). Your thread brought tears to my eyes. What you said is very strong and very important. It is simple too, though most dont notice it. If we could all just think a bit about what we already have, we'd feel better. If one realises what they have, they wouldnt run away after what they dont have.

 

[Syber Tiger]

TY liley,u can i put your post in thread (main post) u expalne it wonderfully what i mean,

 

[Drama]

Of course you can

 

[Ak5]

We have a lot going for us even though we're lonely.

These people will probably be bullied and left out for not being "normal". We, if we work on making friends, we can make friends, and we can play ball and go out with them. These people can't grow limbs! They won't be able to walk with friends or play ball with them; we can if we work at it.

Sometimes the emotional pain is hard enough that we forget that there are others who have it harder than us. We might be lonely and technically "disabled" for months or years without friends....These people are disabled for life.

 

[Syber Tiger]

yup,ak5 you 100% right on that,it makes you think but after a few day ppl say **** that *complains again*

 

[paulo]

talking about the real seriouse problems and issues people here and anywhere else might have id say it really doesnt mather how much worse off someone else may or may not be.
i have my problems, someone else having bigger problems doesnt make mine any less of a problem.

talking about people whining about stuff that really doesnt mather that much than yeah, your right.

 

[Minus]

Of course you still have your problems. I took Mr Tiger as talking about keeping things in perspective.

 

[Drama]

lol Minus

 

[paulo]

ofc, and for people just complaining he`s absolutely right.
you should keep things in perspective.

but i do think you cant really compair (emotional) pain or issues anyone might have.
who is anyone to say someone might be complaining and should gain some perspective or is having some real issues that might not seem as big a deal to you.
whats bearable for some might be something someone else cant live with.
something you need to be a little carefull with it think.
just telling them there are people starving and dying somewhere else really isnt gonne help them much.

 

[Drama]

dude, calm down. (d)

 

[Minus]

Sure, i would agree that you can't compare pain because ever horse thinks his pack is the heaviest.
Still many of us, may at times obsesses about what is wrong, in an unproductive and unhealthy manner that accomplished nothing. To realize that there are people who have it worse but are still able to function, may give it some perspective. I don't care who you are or what is going on, there are people who have it worse.

 

[paulo]

im not upset or anything

i just think he put it a little crude.
dont disagree with him either.
but just telling someone should feel lucky cause someone else has it worse well....

 

[Syber Tiger]

u miss read it lol

ur luckey that u dont have to grow up/life with out a limb or something...that wat i am trying to say by it

 

[Drama]

well what? He's right, paulo. (d)

 

[paulo]

well what? He's right, paulo. (d)

i never said he wasnt.
just a little crude.