Time

[Drew88]

So having been in a relationship for a little I find myself wanting to spend more time with the my girlfriend, however her schedule can be quite full with school and work. thats understandable. However it being winter break and school no longer being an obligation on her schedule you would think that she would give me more time, not the case in fact its the opposite and I am frustrated. I would like to be able to be able to spend the whole day with her or at the very least more then 4 hours together. Hell, I can not even get her to spend the night at my place because she has her (step) dad breathing down her neck.(she will be 22 next month)

 

[jetsuo]

Let your bird know how you feel without without coming off too needy. thats a turn off.
Make an effort to get talking to the step dad so he starts liking you. Then he will be more receptive.

 

[Drew88]

Let your bird know how you feel without without coming off too needy. thats a turn off.
Make an effort to get talking to the step dad so he starts liking you. Then he will be more receptive.

I tried and he has no interest in doing so. yes I have.

 

[jetsuo]

Let your bird know how you feel without without coming off too needy. thats a turn off.
Make an effort to get talking to the step dad so he starts liking you. Then he will be more receptive.

I tried and he has no interest in doing so. yes I have.

welll the dad thing was always gonna be a long shot.
Ok so what does your woman do with the extra free time now?
Im guessing you told her how you feel and you didn't get a satisfactory answer?

 

[Tiina63]

Hi Drew88, if your relationship is quite recent, four hours every day together doesn't sound too bad. Maybe it is because I am an introvert, but I would find it enough in the early stages of a relationship. Maybe your girlfriend is the same?

 

[Drew88]

Hi Drew88, if your relationship is quite recent, four hours every day together doesn't sound too bad. Maybe it is because I am an introvert, but I would find it enough in the early stages of a relationship. Maybe your girlfriend is the same?

maybe, but 4 hours including sex? I guess I was naive to think that you would be spending more time together after you get intimate so often.

 

[Gutted]

I find that if you complain about this sort of stuff, you come out even worse then you did before. Tread carefully. You don't want to say something and find yourself seeing her less. Try to look at it as if it could be worse. You could be seeing her once a week for 1 hour, lol.

 

[Drew88]

Well this week is going fantastic :/
Monday -We went to my doctor, then she went to get her dad and then of course had to eat supper with her family, was suppose to come over for a show, but she decide against it due to feeling depress bout her dad and me, also wanted to do homework, went to bed early instead and took a bath. Total time 2:45

Tuesday- Waited to see if she was going to come over before I go to work, like she used to before break, she didn't show Total Time 0

Wednesday- Picked her up from school and then went to grab lunch with my mom and sis, then had to take her home for a work meeting, she was suppose to come over afterwards, but instead decide to stay home and do homework, she finally show, but could not do anything caz I had to go pick up my brother, then we went for league, she had then had to go home for supper again, didn't come back, decide that she was going to do homework so she could come over and spend time with me today. Total Time: 4:00

Today, waiting on here to show, don't think she will as she is not talking to me, if she doesn't show by noon I am going to just go ahead and go to work. Forget this.

*updated she is on her way for today, but we will only have....you guessed it 4 hours.

 

[OnlyMe]

maybe, but 4 hours including sex? I guess I was naive to think that you would be spending more time together after you get intimate so often.

Ok make that 4 hours and 3 minutes including sex

 

[duff]

that's the thing, we all want relationships but when we do all sorts of other problems occur !

 

[perfanoff]

I did break up with my ex because she spent less time with me when her college holiday started. Since she put higher priorities on other things than me, it's only fair that I start thinking about taking care of myself when I make my decisions.

I want to stress it's just a related thing, not necessarily the same situation. Ultimately it depends