I've never fully bought into that old notion that if you're beautiful on the inside then it simply doesn't matter if you're physically unattractive, or the cliche "beauty is only skin deep", etc, etc. Those are just things people like to "say" but eh, I don't think they always believe or practice it. Sure, there are always exceptions to the rule - but it's not the norm. Nature simply doesn't always work that way. Look at the animal world as an example. So often the smaller, awkward, physically odd looking, weaker males in the heard (pick your species) will never get to mate because of their lack of "looks", the females always select the larger, normal looking, stronger options, period. It's how things work. We are not that much different IMO. If you're a homely guy, small, feeble looking, etc, you're more or less also a reject like that skinny buck with lopsided antlers that all the does pass on. Not always. But often enough that it's a thing. I hate it but believe it's how things work in our world as well (I'm a reject too). All that other stuff factors in (loyalty, character, dependability, humor, wealth, etc), but looks are a part of the process too. If you're cursed with bad looks, have little to no other good qualities, I don't care how nice you are - you're gonna struggle to find a mate. I'm willing to bet there are tons of really kind, wonderful people on this board that all exude positivity, kindness, etc, yet they are still lonely/single and simply cursed in love because well, we ugly. Not many out there lookig for that.
Let me put it this way, Screech never got the girls yet he was kind, funny, genuine, nice, loyal, stable, etc. Didn't matter - they all wanted Slater or Zack. I'm a Screech/reject and I ******' hate it...but that's life...like others mentioned, except it and enjoy the time you've been given! Maybe you'll cross paths with a female reject that likes you (I'm still waiting and praying for that one myself but running out of time lol).
I prefer not to, but ten years ago, I'd be so ready to throw fists, and wouldn't care a bit. I rarely ever have to now because I actively avoid most people.
Okay okay, I'll think deeper, no honestly, I have never looked at any man and thought, "you are good enough for me". The looks of a man aren't even that attractive to me, I cant help that, I like things like their accents, their ability to make me a mother, mental strength, physical strength, if I feel dominated by him before we are even a thing, his height will help with that, silly but true. I dont sit there thinking, oh wow, that man has a beautiful face, would love to be with him...
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