Waiting for the perfect partner

[Ice]

http://www.alonelylife.com/showthread.php?tid=10555&pid=182915#pid182915

Because of that... I have thinking that very often. I am getting old and that famous clock is ticking. So why not? Why I just did not taken some of the offers or take one of the possible coming ones? What is wrong with me? Why I want to do that what is in the pic for myself? I could live with someone and avoid that destiny, just one word to step out of that destiny.

But apparently I do not want to avoid it. It is better destiny than live with some who with things does not fit together. It is horrible price to pay but there is 2 options and that one in the pic is not so bad after all, lol.

Or am I wrong?

 

[Badjedidude]

I don't believe that there is ONLY one potential mate for each person. I think that there are MANY different possible love matches for everyone on the planet, because there are so many people living on the planet.

I believe that the best way to go through life is to not to look for "the one," but to look for lovers who will fit your criteria for a working relationship, and then build from there.

No one is going to automatically fit your dream expectations. But you can meet someone and then both work TOGETHER to fit each other's dream expectations. That's how love works, I think.

 

[IVIZ]

I once heard a really great saying somewhere when trying to meet someome. It goes like this; "Don't try to look for the right person in your life, BE the right person for that someone else"

I think this is a great way to look at things. You feel confident that you are a great person and will be a treasure for that special someone, once she or he come
along. Instead of you looking for the perfect partner, be the perfect partner. That is the best next step in outlook or finding someone that you can compromise to their needs. Vise versa.

It may not be perfect, but a good way of approaching the subject of looking for your soulmate.

 

[Ice]

Good points, I am happy you believe so, that means you are not the ones who dies alone

 

[SophiaGrace]

"Don't try to look for the right person in your life, BE the right person for that someone else."

I agree with this.

 

[Ice]

I could never thought that one should change or another person should change and pleasant other that the could live their lifes together. If they cannot love each other the way they are that is better end. I rather chooce that skeleton faith than start to demand another person change because of me or helter skelter.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

mmmm..there's always the perfect person for you for the perfect moment or your current life situation.
Sure like many of us, I too wanted just one person, a partner, a companion to share my life with....
but it hasnt worked out like that for me. Whatever that role or vision I had of what life should be.

If I look back on my life. There's always been love in my life or someone for me as long as I stay open.
Not in ways I visioned. Sometimes better, other times worst.
Even now there's someone in my life...she's not a perfect person, nor am I. However we're right for each other, right now.

I'm a guy...I don't have the luxgury of waiting. Even though in my past women that I got involved with
had asked me out (everyone of them).
Maybe that's what i need to do different now. Go for what I want instead of waiting for her or life to come to me.

 

[edgecrusher]

i agree with BJD on this one. i doubt that there is only ONE person out there that is a match. i find that hard to believe considering there are like 7 billion people on this planet. its just harder for some to find one of those people.