What attracts women in men:

[kevin_d'_lion]

With regards to the subject relationship; I'd like to ask, What Annoys women in general and what are the factors that can attract them?

 

[cheaptrickfan]

With regards to the subject relationship; I'd like to ask, What Annoys women in general and what are the factors that can attract them?

There are a lot of interesting answers to this very question in this thread: Questions for the Women

Every woman has her own likes/dislikes (obviously). As for me, arrogance tops my list of most annoying things about a man. with stalkerish possessiveness coming in at number 2.

What attracts me (non-physical): intelligence, a sense of humor compatible with my own, the ability to show compassion and empathize.

 

[jales]

for me,

what annoys me is arrogance, them trying to move to fast,being too playful in the very beginning, them not caring at all what i say but rather just acting upon what they feel alone.

what attracts me is lots and lots of attention given to me, them not trying to touch me until at least 3 weeks of talking everyday, them being kind of smart, and calm, and not trying to touch me too much till i'm comfortable with that of course, and when they show respect for the way i feel about certain things.

 

[Jesse]

for me,

what annoys me is arrogance, them trying to move to fast,being too playful in the very beginning, them not caring at all what i say but rather just acting upon what they feel alone.

what attracts me is lots and lots of attention given to me, them not trying to touch me until at least 3 weeks of talking everyday, them being kind of smart, and calm, and not trying to touch me too much till i'm comfortable with that of course, and when they show respect for the way i feel about certain things.

Now that's awesome. I'm the type of guy who doesn't want to be all over someone on a date. I don't want to make a move until I'm very comfortable with the person, but most of the advice I hear for dating tells me I have to make moves or risk being put in the friend zone.

 

[Papabear]

for me,

what annoys me is arrogance, them trying to move to fast,being too playful in the very beginning, them not caring at all what i say but rather just acting upon what they feel alone.

what attracts me is lots and lots of attention given to me, them not trying to touch me until at least 3 weeks of talking everyday, them being kind of smart, and calm, and not trying to touch me too much till i'm comfortable with that of course, and when they show respect for the way i feel about certain things.

Now that's awesome. I'm the type of guy who doesn't want to be all over someone on a date. I don't want to make a move until I'm very comfortable with the person, but most of the advice I hear for dating tells me I have to make moves or risk being put in the friend zone.

This is true in a lot of cases. If you really feel that you don't want to move faster then keep trying, you'll find someone more compatible with you, possibly. It's also possible that there are some great people out there for you that happen to prefer you moving faster, it's something that isn't too important in the long run of a relationship so maybe try stepping out of your comfort zone?

 

[Jesse]

for me,

what annoys me is arrogance, them trying to move to fast,being too playful in the very beginning, them not caring at all what i say but rather just acting upon what they feel alone.

what attracts me is lots and lots of attention given to me, them not trying to touch me until at least 3 weeks of talking everyday, them being kind of smart, and calm, and not trying to touch me too much till i'm comfortable with that of course, and when they show respect for the way i feel about certain things.

Now that's awesome. I'm the type of guy who doesn't want to be all over someone on a date. I don't want to make a move until I'm very comfortable with the person, but most of the advice I hear for dating tells me I have to make moves or risk being put in the friend zone.

This is true in a lot of cases. If you really feel that you don't want to move faster then keep trying, you'll find someone more compatible with you, possibly. It's also possible that there are some great people out there for you that happen to prefer you moving faster, it's something that isn't too important in the long run of a relationship so maybe try stepping out of your comfort zone?

Thanks for the advice. Right now in my life I'm working on recovering from personal things and taking a break from dating. My recovery may directly effect my dating.