Alonewith2cats
Well-known member
I've been checking out this website:
http://www.cuddlecomfort.com/
I've been thinking about it. I'm reluctant though because I don't know if it's safe. Getting together with strangers on the internet, having them in your home or going to their home is a scary concept. You never know what kind of predators might be lurking on a website like this. But I do like the ideas that this website is based on. Think about all the people that engage in meaningless sex to deal with their loneliness or whatever issues they have and how it's really limiting how much satisfaction is obtained from that. They'll continue feeling empty. I don't judge anyone, people can do whatever they want, I don't care. But I personally, and I only say this because I know what's right for me, I would never want to have no strings attached sex with anyone. I have to be very attracted to and like the person a lot and expect the same from that person to share my body sexually with someone. That means I'm guaranteed to get emotionally attached. Even kissing means something to me. But just cuddling with no kissing on the mouth, no making out and no sex, I could totally do that with someone with absolutely no strings attached. And using someone as a teddy bear is not a bad thing. Maybe I'll turn into one of those cuddle sluts. I don't know. I haven't tried it yet.
What do you think? What is your opinion? Would you participate in something like a free website where you can meet people for free cuddles and watch movies and eat munchies or does the idea put you off because they're strangers on the internet and you don't know if it's safe? Would you feel comfortable with it?
http://www.cuddlecomfort.com/
I've been thinking about it. I'm reluctant though because I don't know if it's safe. Getting together with strangers on the internet, having them in your home or going to their home is a scary concept. You never know what kind of predators might be lurking on a website like this. But I do like the ideas that this website is based on. Think about all the people that engage in meaningless sex to deal with their loneliness or whatever issues they have and how it's really limiting how much satisfaction is obtained from that. They'll continue feeling empty. I don't judge anyone, people can do whatever they want, I don't care. But I personally, and I only say this because I know what's right for me, I would never want to have no strings attached sex with anyone. I have to be very attracted to and like the person a lot and expect the same from that person to share my body sexually with someone. That means I'm guaranteed to get emotionally attached. Even kissing means something to me. But just cuddling with no kissing on the mouth, no making out and no sex, I could totally do that with someone with absolutely no strings attached. And using someone as a teddy bear is not a bad thing. Maybe I'll turn into one of those cuddle sluts. I don't know. I haven't tried it yet.
What do you think? What is your opinion? Would you participate in something like a free website where you can meet people for free cuddles and watch movies and eat munchies or does the idea put you off because they're strangers on the internet and you don't know if it's safe? Would you feel comfortable with it?