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When did you get your first girlfriend/boyfriend?

  • Before my teens

    Votes: 4 10.3%
  • 13

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 14

    Votes: 1 2.6%
  • 15

    Votes: 1 2.6%
  • 16

    Votes: 3 7.7%
  • 17

    Votes: 3 7.7%
  • 18

    Votes: 4 10.3%
  • 19

    Votes: 2 5.1%
  • 20+

    Votes: 5 12.8%
  • I've never had a boyfriend/girlfriend

    Votes: 16 41.0%

  • Total voters
    39
I began dating my ex at 19. Never really cared before him, and don't really care after.
 
I was 18 when I had my first boyfriend aside from the kid I "married" in kindergarten.
 
Anonymouse said:
cheaptrickfan said:
aside from the kid I "married" in kindergarten.

Haha, awwwwe.
Kindergarden marriages were truely the best.

Anytime they're officiated by a kid with a cute lisp, yeah, pretty awesome indeed. :D
 
Anonymouse said:
I also, for whatever reason, remember everyone wearing strictly sweat pants or track suits, haha.

Well I was unfortunate enough to be a kid in the 70s. Polyester ruled the day. OMG There are some pictures of me looking suspiciously like the littlest member of the Partridge Family.
 
Anonymouse said:
That sounds far more classy! I'm jealous.
The only person I resembled was a little gypsy stereotype, haha.

There is nothing classy about a purple polyester pantsuit and a white patent leather belt and matching shoes.
 
Anonymouse said:
There is nothing classy about a purple polyester pantsuit and a white patent leather belt and matching shoes.

haha sounds pretty damn fine to me ;)
 
I also married quite a few little ones in kindergarten...:) but my first BF was when i was 11... its also when I lost my uhhh.... wholesomeness.... I started young. I had no female role model to talk to me about things.
 
It's hard for me to judge really. I know who it was, but I don't know when she became my girlfriend since we had been flirting throughout middleschool (flirting = she used to pull my hair a lot, but then later in the day would sit on my lap and want to sit next to me on the schoolbus...girls are ******* insane from a very young age I guess). Well, I put 14 cuz that's when I had my first real kiss with her. She also went on to become the first girl I had *** with too, so I guess she was an important person in my history, eh? Yeah, come to think about it-- I've had several girlfrinds in my life, but she's the only one I think I really cared for. Too bad she never felt the same about me.
 
I'm not sure how I should answer:

As a kid I had a childhood sweetheart, but she only visited sometimes, and when our mothers stopped talking there was no contact.

I had a different girlfriend for every school grade, but it was nothing serious.

In high school I had one for about 3 months... a more serious relationship that involved kissing and even losing my virginity... I was 17... perhaps this one is most valid...

And I, now 28, have just finished living a full year with someone who I love, who I am told is my soulmate from a past life, but who has moved on with her life and likely is only staying involved till she can find a way to get her things back...

If there is a next time it would have to be 100x better, or perhaps I should stay alone...
 
My first girlfriend was at like 12...but I'm not sure it counts as the most I "did" with her was hold hands. Pretty kinky, huh? We were only "dating" for like 2 weeks, though.

My next actual relationship was at around 14. Didn't end well. Next one was at 16. Didn't end well. Next one was at 17 and lasted until I was 22/23...and it didn't end well.

Lol I'm single now, but haven't given up. :) Yay for life experience! :p

@Anonymouse: Gold boots would go PERFECTLY with the clothes that cheaptrickfan mentioned. ;) lol...so....just a thought.

----Steve

P.S. I'm only counting actual relationships here....not minor hookups and the like.
 
cheaptrickfan said:
I was 18 when I had my first boyfriend aside from the kid I "married" in kindergarten.

I was supposed to marry the girl next door. Literally. Not a word from her in 20 years though. I wonder if verbal contracts are binding in the state of massachusetts... :p


Badjedidude said:
Yay for life experience! :p

lol
 
First time i kissed a girl was 13. During summer camp. Just holding hands and kissing.
She persued me...so i didn't really had a chioce. A couple of weeks.
I had something to write about in one of those..."WTF did you do last summer" assignments.

My next gf was when I was 15. It lasted around 6 months. I met her during the summer.
We spent everyday together going swimming, playing vedio games, and making out the entire summer.
It was a summer of romance. We were both very much in love and insaperatable.
Came close to having *** because she wanted to but i didn't. We were still very innocent in so many ways.
We went to different schools. It was very difficult for the both of us. We finally broke up after 3 month into
the school year. She still continued to call me for 2 years after. She was my first love ,as I was her's.
I belive in many ways I tried to replace her with other women in my life. She was a very loving, kind,
thoughtful and understanding person. I knew at that young of age that a relationship had a lot more to do
than just ***. We were very compatiable. Love the same music and activities. We had the same view on life.
She had beautiful long golden blonde hair, hazel eyes, a face of an angle, vioce sweet as honey, the same hight as me.
Her name is Rita. We actaully never fought. Fate had it's way with us. We were too young and adults where still in control of our lifes.
We don't have any ill toward each other. Our lives just took us saperate ways. I don't think I'll ever forget her nor would
she forget me.

mmm..my ex-gf Sherry looks almost just like her. I could never tell Sherry that. It was one of the major reasons why I fell head over heels
with Sherry. Sherry looks just like Rita. There...I told on myself. I'm about as sick as my secrets.

I think it kind of messed me up in a different way. I thought all girls or women would be as nice, loving and understanding as her,
if they got involved with me. mmmm...was i in for a fucken shock...
 
I got my first boyfriend when i was 11 or 12. His name was Jon :3

he got me a carnation in 7th grade :p

Now, he's a fireman :)
 
Stupid firemen....protecting our houses and taking our women with their rugged good looks and strongly built bodies. And their glistening helmets...and their....ooohhh.....wait, I'm not gay.

lol j/k gobless dem firemans.

but plz stop taking the womens.

----Steve
 
Anonymouse said:
Lurker.In.The.Night said:
Now, he's a fireman :)

This boards seems to have a reoccuring theme of Fire Fighters.

Firemen are sort of an archetype of hotness.

What? Hey, I pride myself on looking past the obvious physical aspects, but there is just something about a guy in his bunker gear.

*cough*
 
When I just turned 14 it lasted like 4months and he cheated on me and then I got another boyfriend when I just turned 15 and its been a year and about 5months now.
 
TheWickedOne said:
I would have KILLED for that outfit. My mom kept dressing me in green.

I give you, the Purple Pantsuit from Hell.

The 1970s were a cruel decade for fashion.

purplepantsuit.jpg
 

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