Where do I go from here?

[Alma lost her spoon]

So now I've come to realise that I am ready to move on, what do I do?

Should I do anything?

I'm aware that I would tell anyone else in the same situation to just continue on with living & let things take a natural course-surely that would be the 'way'...so why do I find that so damned hard to do right now?

In my mind I'm also aware that I've always made the first move, & yes look where that's got me hah!

There is literally nobody on my horizon anyway.

Hmmn, I'm not prepared to sit at home alone waiting for someone to stumble into my life, I have plenty of things to keep me busy & I enjoy my life but it would be fun to have someone to share things with.
I also think if I wait for the 'right person' to come to me, I could be here a long time indeed.

I have a fantasy that someone would woo me, it really would be lovely to not have to be the one to instigate things for a change but I fear it could never happen.

Today's meditation speaks of 'Progression' & of changing methodology when something becomes stale, if there is restlessness it is time to alter how we meditate.....

If I could stop scaring them off that would be a start lol

Meh.

 

[DVEUS]

alma...you strike me as a strong-willed woman...but i being a woman also i empathize with your plight...don't let 'i have no one on the horizon' define you...it's not a matter of 'seek and ye shall find'...but more of this >> good things come to those who wait...whether all of that is true or not remains insignificant...you seem like a well-adjusted kind and compassionate human being and your time will come

 

[ladyforsaken]

I'm aware that I would tell anyone else in the same situation to just continue on with living & let things take a natural course-surely that would be the 'way'...so why do I find that so damned hard to do right now?

I totally know this feeling, I was just feeling something like this recently myself. It's a lot harder when you're the one actually going through it and the emotions are there to make it more challenging to go through with.

I suppose, now that you feel you're ready to move on, you start doing things that you normally do and maybe try to do something different also. Something exciting, or fun, something that would occupy you and make you feel better. I think that could be the first step.

Good luck, Alma. I believe you'll soon find you way to go forward.

 

[Arachne]

So now I've come to realise that I am ready to move on, what do I do?

Should I do anything?

I'm aware that I would tell anyone else in the same situation to just continue on with living & let things take a natural course-surely that would be the 'way'...so why do I find that so damned hard to do right now?

In my mind I'm also aware that I've always made the first move, & yes look where that's got me hah!

There is literally nobody on my horizon anyway.

Hmmn, I'm not prepared to sit at home alone waiting for someone to stumble into my life, I have plenty of things to keep me busy & I enjoy my life but it would be fun to have someone to share things with.
I also think if I wait for the 'right person' to come to me, I could be here a long time indeed.

I have a fantasy that someone would woo me, it really would be lovely to not have to be the one to instigate things for a change but I fear it could never happen.

Today's meditation speaks of 'Progression' & of changing methodology when something becomes stale, if there is restlessness it is time to alter how we meditate.....

If I could stop scaring them off that would be a start lol

Meh.

I know this feeling also. I have been waiting for my prince charming to come far to long. However, recently I have decided to let things go as they may. To stop worrying about it and live my life. I sense a strong woman in you Alma. One I admire for her not afraid attitude, I only wish I could be as open and out front as you. You are a beautiful woman Alma, any man would be a fool to not see it. I do believe in the end good things will come to those that seek them. My Wicca beliefs teach me as such. You do not scare them off, I don't believe it for a second. He's out there and I just bet you will meet that person soon. I wish you bright blessings of hope and light and will keep you in my devotions.. Blessed be..^.^

 

[Alma lost her spoon]

Ladies, I thank you for your thoughts. I very much appreciate what you have each said above.

DVEEUS-kind & compassionate I may be(as for well adjusted I think the jury might still be out lol) I've never been good at being patient, which is bizarre considering I know I can exercise a great deal of self-control, perserverance & fortitude in many aspects of my life.....as I strive to lift myself from the mud, up through the murky waters towards the light I am required to learn many lessons to aid my progression, I must accept that this is but one challenge I must face.

LadyF-my piano is being delivered on Thursday(I'm quite delighted), I intend to while away the cold winter evenings plinkplonking(my poor poor neighbours!) learning to play-my hope is to eventually be able to play 'honkytonk'. This isn't going to get me out there meeting new people, nor might it be very exciting, or what you had in mind but it will occupy me somewhat & help me build my patience perhaps.

Arachne-you are a very kind spirited soul, often I see much of myself reflected in your postings(I hope you don't mind me saying) & I think you have far more inner strength than you might, at times, credit yourself with.

I am so very glad I have found this place with such lovely people as yourselves.

Love, light & energy to us all.

 

[ladyforsaken]

LadyF-my piano is being delivered on Thursday(I'm quite delighted), I intend to while away the cold winter evenings plinkplonking(my poor poor neighbours!) learning to play-my hope is to eventually be able to play 'honkytonk'. This isn't going to get me out there meeting new people, nor might it be very exciting, or what you had in mind but it will occupy me somewhat & help me build my patience perhaps.

That sounds perfect. Have fun!