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African_weasel

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Hey guys, recently I felt like everyone is just avoiding me ever since this good for nothing dealer said that I tried to threaten him which I didn't do. He also said that I was going to stalk this girl the same day and called me a push over for not having a job or not being able to find one or get hired, though it may have been about something else. Can anybody explain why I'm feeling this way?
 
It might be true. No one wants to be around a stalker or feel at threat of assault. As far as they know, you are one.

Uhm...

I wouldn't care too much about your dealer's opinion. He's one mess up away from a felony in trafficking drugs which will haunt him the rest of his life.
 
Drug dealers are hardly known for their honesty. They should know better than to spread ******** about people though, anonymous tip-off to the police maybe? I doubt people will care much for his lies when he is behind bars rediscovering his sexuality.

Seriously though, why is this dealer in a position to be effecting your life so much? These are not the kind of people you should surround yourself with if you want a happy, stress-free life.
 
Whatever the reason, it's their problem, not yours. Forget about them, and stop caring what a dealer thinks. You can find better friends.

Lol, I don't know any dealers, but I've never heard of one who tells people that he was threatened.....Maybe he's afraid of you?
 
SophiaGrace said:
It might be true. No one wants to be around a stalker or feel at threat of assault. As far as they know, you are one.

Uhm...

I wouldn't care too much about your dealer's opinion. He's one mess up away from a felony in trafficking drugs which will haunt him the rest of his life.

The thing is that he barely knew me and I wasn't going to stalk anyone or attack them for no reason. Plus I'm not the one who is that desperate to start selling drugs and all when I have a legit job.


Locke said:
Whatever the reason, it's their problem, not yours. Forget about them, and stop caring what a dealer thinks. You can find better friends.

Lol, I don't know any dealers, but I've never heard of one who tells people that he was threatened.....Maybe he's afraid of you?

afraid of me how?
 
This dealer isn't making any sense from what you put, is he high?

So first I assume he told people you know that you threaten him? Isn't it supposed to be the other way round if he's a dealer?

Then he says that you're going to stalk some girl, like you told him your intentions? Why would you do this even if you planned to?

And finally he called you a "push over" for not being able to get employment? What does he suggest? You burst in some random company and bully them into hiring you? I think that just shows the mentality of this guy.. anyway does he think being a drug dealer is the way to go?

...ultimately, why would he say ANY of this?
 
9006 said:
This dealer isn't making any sense from what you put, is he high?

So first I assume he told people you know that you threaten him? Isn't it supposed to be the other way round if he's a dealer?

Then he says that you're going to stalk some girl, like you told him your intentions? Why would you do this even if you planned to?

And finally he called you a "push over" for not being able to get employment? What does he suggest? You burst in some random company and bully them into hiring you? I think that just shows the mentality of this guy.. anyway does he think being a drug dealer is the way to go?

...ultimately, why would he say ANY of this?

prejudice because I practice martial arts(taekwondo) which makes me "dangerous" and he stalked some girl some time ago and thought I was going to do the same thing. He thinks I was going to make him my enemy. And he wasn't high from what I assume. All and all, I don't know. Those are really good questions


Runciter said:
Drug dealers are hardly known for their honesty. They should know better than to spread ******** about people though, anonymous tip-off to the police maybe? I doubt people will care much for his lies when he is behind bars rediscovering his sexuality.

Seriously though, why is this dealer in a position to be effecting your life so much? These are not the kind of people you should surround yourself with if you want a happy, stress-free life.

How much money do you think they will give me if I ask for it ;) :p. JK. I have thought about it. I was going to tell the office about that too. But I'm serious :p.
 

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