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Among the Sleep

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I've been single my entire life (almost 23) but a few months ago I met a really awesome girl. She's also really good looking, and I'd consider myself maybe average, so that's a plus. Anyway, the few times we've met we've really connected a lot, and I know she's kind of into me, as I am into her. This is a new development, and an exciting thing I've longed for for as long as I can remember. We've been texting a lot, but I haven't seen her in a few months, cause she lives really far away. I've noticed lately her texts have been a little bit shorter. But we still have plans to hang out through some mutual friends (who live at a good halfway point between us) and she does seem excited about it. I really like her and I want to make this work, we'll be hanging out in about two weeks. I have all sorts of nervous energy and impatience over seeing her, cause again, we had a very strong and real connection when we met before. I just hope going a few months without seeing me didn't completely dull the emotions down and that she still finds me "adorable" and "interesting" like she did before. It would mean a lot to me. Send me some good vibes, prayers, you know, if you're into that thing. Or just write a positive comment and tell me I won't be lonely forever :) Even if you don't really mean it, it would mean a lot to me...
 
Do not let desperation be the fuel for your feelings for her. Go nice and slow. May the force be with you.

Oh and before you go listen to Waving by Blackfield.
 
fuzzybutt said:
Do not let desperation be the fuel for your feelings for her. Go nice and slow. May the force be with you.

Oh and before you go listen to Waving by Blackfield.

Two solid pieces of advice! ;)

LoneKiller said:
"..Absence makes the heart grow fonder.." I wish you all the success in the world in your pursuit of happiness.:)

Sci-Fi said:
Good luck, hope things work out for you.

:D
 
Good luck man! I hope she hasn't changed her mind in such a short time, but I don't think she has. The fact that she still texts you regularly and that she still sounds excited about it, are all good signs.

Don't be too nervous, take it as it comes and enjoy your time together. Things will work out! :)
 
Mate, take the risk. If it works out then you'll kick yourself with joy. If it doesn't work out, at least you can say you tried. If you don't take the risk, you may kick yourself for it. But you can do it! :D

Have a great time~

(Hope I'm not late)
 
Good Luck :)

I hope you take things carefully, just picture in your mind how great it will be when things just fall into place ;)
 
Good luck!

Don't spend too much time over thinking what's happening, have fun and enjoy.
 

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