Wooing a female? Help for a socially outgoing but romantically stunted young man.

[ColbyKristoff]

Hello, I am Colby Kristoff and I'm an outgoing junior. I'm high energy and up for just about anything and though I have very few close friends, I generally manage to have a good time when I do interact with people, even if I have a hard time connecting with them.

I do, however, have a problem with girls. I'm not shy, I flirt plenty, and I have a pretty inviting personality, even if I do say so myself. I just have a hard time getting any female I'm interested in to requite the feeling. :/ Does anyone have any advice beyond the "Be-yourself" generic stuff one usually hears on advice columns.

 

[friendlyheart]

I think it's important to be yourself when it comes to girls so as old fashioned that advice my seem it's still one of the best. When it comes to conversations try to show intrest in the other person, in the things they are interested in and in the things they do. If you have things in common that's really great, makes your job easier. But make sure you are curious enough about the other person as well and not focusing too much on wanting to get their attention by what you say about yourself or what you do.
Also try to first be friends with a girl, get to a level where you're having a nice basis for a relationship and take steps slowly.
Hope this helps

 

[Parabolani]

Treat the Ho's the same way you treat the Bro's.

 

[MissGuided]

Personally, I really like it when a new guy says things like, 'I was doing/watching/listening to such and such and it reminded me of you.'....especially if it's something we have in common or have had convos about recently.

I guess that it's really nice to hear someone is thinking about me, even if I already know or hope they are. Just makes me feel...special.

Hope that helps.

 

[IgnoredOne]

Hello, I am Colby Kristoff and I'm an outgoing junior. I'm high energy and up for just about anything and though I have very few close friends, I generally manage to have a good time when I do interact with people, even if I have a hard time connecting with them.

I do, however, have a problem with girls. I'm not shy, I flirt plenty, and I have a pretty inviting personality, even if I do say so myself. I just have a hard time getting any female I'm interested in to requite the feeling. :/ Does anyone have any advice beyond the "Be-yourself" generic stuff one usually hears on advice columns.

1) Be confident in yourself.
2) Show interest in what she does and who she is.
3) ???
4) Profit!

 

[Sarah_Lbnz]

Girls are picky. Some are not. Girls can smell hard-on. Sometimes it's good, sometimes it's like, put it down already. Lower it! Then trrrrrry to listen. Eye contact. Laugh. Find yer balls!

I've had guys who had crushes on me but until they shut up I wasn't positive if they were interested, because they were stuck on the intellectual level, blathering away. But I could smell hard-on, and I had to find muh lips, since it was up to me to make a move.

Shower. Brush your teeth. Eat lots of fibre.

/You asked for advice beyond the "Be-yourself" generic stuff. Really just ... meet lots of girls.