neo651
Active member
I was talking to my friend yesterday about various issues I have and she pointed out that the only thing standing in the way of fixing most of them is myself. She told me I need to just put in the effort and fix my problems. That's when I realized that I don't believe I'm worth the effort. I told her this and she told me that I worth the effort. I reminded her that she's told me this thousands of times. She said that I just have to trust her for once. I thought about that for a while. I trust her more than I've ever trusted anyone in my life. She knows all my secrets and I'd trust her with my very life. So why couldn't I trust her when she tells me that I'm worth fixing? I realized it's because the whole idea that I'm worth something is nonsensical to me. I can't trust her when she tells me I have worth anymore than I could trust her if she spoke gibberish. It doesn't apply.
For this concept of me having worth, how do I make that make sense to me?
For this concept of me having worth, how do I make that make sense to me?