Maybe u might try talking to people in Alanon. Coda or ACOA.
Most come from dyfunctional homes.
They made lasting changes or in
process of recovery..
Trying to keep everyone is happy
or taking of everyones problems.
is the most common trait of codependency.
Salmons, Penguins, whales.etc
Animals have a build in homing
beacon. Birds fly south for the winter..etc
Humans dose too. Except human
BRING HOME TO THEM.
U heard of... a girl running away from
home to get way from her father and ended up marrying someone just like her father???
I get ya....
I didnt look into co dependency
until 5 yrs ago.
After fail relationships after failed relationships..
All the women I get involve with are
very beautiul and sweet from the started It dosnt matter what they do
for a living or where I meet them.
My exwf was a girl next door type.
I met her at work.
Sherry was a social worker Professional type. I met her in church.
Renae was a wild party girl.
Years later iinto into the relationship
all of thes women had onething in common asside from their looks....
They all treated me like my alcoholic father even though they dont all have
the exact same traits..
I thought I was doing the right thing..
Be a good partner, nice guy. A provider and being supportive...
No...none of the women have
Pyscho ***** stamp on their forehead.
I dont have victim stamp on mine either.