You either heed the advice you get offered or you don’t. Take some responsibility for your situation. I don’t mean to single you out here, but I’ve really had enough of people on here constantly complaining about their situations and never doing anything to actually remedy it, always putting the blame everywhere else but on themselves. We all are hypocritical to some degree but I think some people just get off on venting and are not really serious about doing something to fix their situation.
Maybe my time on this forum is nearing its end because I’m just not as empathetic as I was.
Take responsibility. Take chances. Unless you’re being held prisoner in some fashion, only you can make the decision to change your life.