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Jessicat
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I have been thinking a lot about my past and how I got into an obsession/stalker “relationship”.
I got targeted from an early age by a man, his obsession lasted several years and it still exists today. I managed to remove myself from the situation when I got a bit older but the damage was done so to speak, I don’t think he will stop targeting me.
He would pop up almost everywhere and it felt like he followed me around every chance he got. Normally he would be waiting for me to finish school or if I was on a handball practice he would be there. This left me with a feeling of never being alone, always thinking that he was there. It made me paranoid and.. scared. Always feeling on edge, never knowing when he is going to strike again. This was a one way relationship, I sure didn’t want it and I showed this to him regularly.
Been thinking about why this happened, why he doesn’t give up. What is he getting out of this behavior and how come he isn’t willing to move on. How do you get that fixated on one person.
Have any of you experienced someone having an obsession with you?
How did you get out of this situation? What made that person stop targeting you?
Just curious if there is anybody else out there that struggle with the same problem.
Love Jessi.
(Relationship is the wrong word to use about this but am using it in lack of a better one.
I got targeted from an early age by a man, his obsession lasted several years and it still exists today. I managed to remove myself from the situation when I got a bit older but the damage was done so to speak, I don’t think he will stop targeting me.
He would pop up almost everywhere and it felt like he followed me around every chance he got. Normally he would be waiting for me to finish school or if I was on a handball practice he would be there. This left me with a feeling of never being alone, always thinking that he was there. It made me paranoid and.. scared. Always feeling on edge, never knowing when he is going to strike again. This was a one way relationship, I sure didn’t want it and I showed this to him regularly.
Been thinking about why this happened, why he doesn’t give up. What is he getting out of this behavior and how come he isn’t willing to move on. How do you get that fixated on one person.
Have any of you experienced someone having an obsession with you?
How did you get out of this situation? What made that person stop targeting you?
Just curious if there is anybody else out there that struggle with the same problem.
Love Jessi.
(Relationship is the wrong word to use about this but am using it in lack of a better one.