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ShybutHi
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If you had someone as a friend on facebook for example, but you did not really know the person, would you ever initiate conversation with the person if you found them attractive and they seemed interesting to you?
ShybutHi said:Ok I see I think in my seriousness in matters of love I may take a perspective which is closer along the lines of old fashioned romantics, but I like that men are not always the ones who show interest toward the opposite sex nowadays. I think it is nice for a woman to show interest, I believe it true that pretty much any human being likes to receive interest from the opposite sex.
Courage and confidence in this area is certainly a huge bonus, whether male or female, it seems to make you more attractive.
ShybutHi said:hehe actually there is not someone I am thinking of messaging, it was just a hypothetical situation and I wondered what people's opinion's on it were.
Everyone has their personal way of handling a situation like that and everyone is entitled to go about it in their own way that is for sure.
I do think it is a shame for either a man or a woman to miss an opportunity with someone whom they are attracted to and interested in due to them deciding to just be completely passive... We only live once after all!
It has happened to me in the past and I have vouched to change my ways in that area.
Why do you say letting them know they are attractive without too much desperation? Showing interest does not necessarily involve any kind of desperation whatsoever for either sex, it is flattering for either sex for someone to show interest.
Unfortunately there are a lot of people out there who do not seem to place much value on attraction and love, it is just something more of a game, something which is fun, than something special with a seriousness attached to it. I do not really think it should be taken so lightly by so many, although that said, I think the majority who perceive relationships in that way are younger people in their teens.
ShybutHi said:If you had someone as a friend on facebook for example, but you did not really know the person, would you ever initiate conversation with the person if you found them attractive and they seemed interesting to you?
ShybutHi said:If you had someone as a friend on facebook for example, but you did not really know the person, would you ever initiate conversation with the person if you found them attractive and they seemed interesting to you?
Triple Bogey said:ShybutHi said:If you had someone as a friend on facebook for example, but you did not really know the person, would you ever initiate conversation with the person if you found them attractive and they seemed interesting to you?
why not ?
easy to write messages. At worst they delete you.
Solivagant said:[quote='x"]
You Aspies are hot but maybe you don't know it.
It is soooooo annoying to meet one and flirt and have them look at you like you are some kind of loose wire.
Its like you are in a world of your own and oblivious to any signals we give.
Its like flirting with Data
x"] [quote='Solivagant said:[quote='x"]
You Aspies are hot but maybe you don't know it.
It is soooooo annoying to meet one and flirt and have them look at you like you are some kind of loose wire.
Its like you are in a world of your own and oblivious to any signals we give.
Its like flirting with Data
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