I live somewhere in NYC, with over 9 million people here, in a densely packed neighborhood, and long-term lonely for sure. 63 year old straight male guy here. A life-long star trek fan, I'm also into (strictly secular) Buddhism, a practitioner that is, Atheist, do-gooder, and an HSP (highly sensitive person). Despite being married for 25 years, and having 2 close friends, I'm intellectually and emotionally extremely lonely.