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Are you making the same mistakes each time? It's not easy these days. don't be so hard on yourself. Don't try so hard. make sure you are altogether first and not trying to find someone "to complete you". As a general rule, women like confident (not cocky), self-reliant, capable men. they don't want childish, needy, selfish, egotistical, boorish, etc men.
 
every relationship i ever had i ruined. i make great first impressions but then fresia it up worst way imaginable.... i dont have the energy, i wanted to type at least a paragraph
every relationship i ever had i ruined. i make great first impressions but then fresia it up worst way imaginable.... i dont have the energy, i wanted to type at least a paragraph
What do you mean freeze up?
 
Relationships are all about learning. You will evolve. And before you know it, you are having a great relationship.
 
I have the same problem. Pattern looks the same (one what I just noticed yesterdat it is that I am myself, good and people like to fall in within 1st days just because I am different - I have like strong beliefs in my own way, my own proritites) that I meet, attract wrong guys and I have been in bad relationship and short quick not-relationships and guys promised varied things but on the end they were ghosting me (saying super simply and very very shortly). So I pressure the most on friendship lately and I decided to stop pressure on myself and I am kinda reaby to be all alone too. Ofc I want that one ideal guy who will understand me, give me space when he will see that I need it, someone whose love language won't be physical touch and words but gifts (especially personal, meaningful) and actions, quality of time instead but if I won't find anyone in time, the best is to be all alone (mentally in last years I am ready for IVF and even if I was in a relationship - this is the only one way for me to make kids)

Don't pressure on yourself anymore, you can still date but on your own rules and you don't need someone to be happy. Rely more on yourself
 

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