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Yes or no?

  • Yes...male

    Votes: 7 11.1%
  • No...male

    Votes: 28 44.4%
  • Yes...female

    Votes: 5 7.9%
  • No...female

    Votes: 16 25.4%
  • Other (explain)

    Votes: 7 11.1%

  • Total voters
    63
No. I consider anything against the agreements of a relationship to be cheating, so if a relationship is open then none of that is cheating.

Trying to say it's only online, or you were only making out with them and not having sex with them, is just a way to toe the line as much as possible. It's still incredibly disrespectful to try to sneak in whatever you can and use semantics to get out of trouble.
 
"Other" - never even been in a relationship, and I'm pretty sure that, at age 35, if I were suddenly and miraculously to enter a relationship, it would be impossible for me to cheat even if I wanted to. You can't cheat if there's nobody to cheat with, after all.
 
Loneliest at Night said:
"Other" - never even been in a relationship, and I'm pretty sure that, at age 35, if I were suddenly and miraculously to enter a relationship, it would be impossible for me to cheat even if I wanted to. You can't cheat if there's nobody to cheat with, after all.

Just wait until you start cheating on yourself. That starts happening in your 40's.
 
Never cheated. Never will. If someone is not getting what they want out of it then a conversation needs to take place. Which is what I will do if I ever find myself in that situation.
 
No I've never cheated. I have been cheated on by two girls I dated. Its a horrible feeling.

I think its a cowardly thing to do. If you so unhappy then just leave, Spare both your feelings.
 
Have been cheated on (first woman I was with) and have never cheated on anyone
 
Neither gender, and have not cheated, but been accused of it. Once had a new guildie send me a wink smiley, that's everything.
 
Never cheated, never will. Honour, trust and respect is too important to me.
 
No, I would end the relationship first (and have a couple of times after exhausting every way possible to make the relationship work).

I have been cheated on in every in relationship except for one and we ended our relationship over religious reasons.
 
Bones 2.0 said:
I have been cheated on in every in relationship except for one and we ended our relationship over religious reasons.

That's rough.
 
Its not classed as cheating in his eyes if he didn't see you as a partner in the first place, he just kept you on a string, spoke about the other women with big knockers, spoke about how many girls adore him. No it is not cheating if he doesn't see what you have as romance. It feels like he is cheating but he isn't in his eyes, you have a casual relationship where he see's you as an unfortunate soul, then plays you as he see's fit, often initiated by a couple that like to pick on other women. Make themselves feel better. It's a strange life when you are trying to find happiness. You fall into relationships that make you look desperate, you were never the one that had to beg for a man. now suddenly you feel like something you thought you would never be. All because of one person, and yourself making the worst possible decision in your life by simply giving someone the benefit of the doubt. No Gain, only pain.
 

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