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Here is an older article which gives great insight on the plight of short men in America but it was written over a decade ago abd things have only gotten much worse for men under 5'10 https://thoughtcatalog.com/andrea-benito/2012/09/short-men-eww-theyre-genetically-deformed/

It's not like that in regards to women & a mans lack of height. Short men ARE looked at as inferior and defective by most women. We are openly ridiculed and only a small percentage of women will be interested in a shorter man over an average height or tall man and this small percentage of women...

My opinions come from observing what people do as opposed to what they say. Nowhere did I ever say anything about hating women either-that is your own personal misconception. The only thing I am an expert on as far as women go is getting rejected or friendzoned by them. You certainly seem to...

Dressing well for ugly men is considered a cope by women though. It's like a confident short man being accused of having a napoleon complex while a confident tall, good looking man is simply being "alpha" and is considered a good leader. There is a reason why the average CEO height is 6'1 and...

Thanks for relating you story-many of us here seem to be in the same boat so it's great that you have found some copes to help deal with it. I truly feel that one has to actually experience it to understand-hence all of the triggered, vitriolic responses from those who cannot or refuse to...

So it seems that you are adverse to logic and reason so prefer the bliss of delusion to that of hard reality-fair enough. What about all of the other men on this board who have had very similar experiences to mine-would you also consider them "dopes" too? I find it quite interesting that people...

Lots of basless assumptions & fallacies on your part so I will try and address them: "how do you explain all the not rich, short, bald men with plain faces dating gorgeous girls?" They are interested in their $, not the men themselves. "maybe they actually grew some balls, just talked to the...

No-just far too unattractive for women to be interested at all let alone on the obsessed, stalking level. From my experience stalking only happens to women & attractive men

My apologies-your statement was so accurate to my life that I assumed it was specifically directed at me.

I guess that's the one benefit about being so physically repulsive as sub5 men never have to worry about being stalked or pursued on any level so we have that going for us, which is nice.

As long as a man is physically attractive, women will compromise about his other attributes. It's average men who need to be nearly perfect to find and keep a relationship while for ugly men it's not an issue since women want nothing to do with us.

The funny thing is that the better looking a man is the more women will allow him to be a jerk or a$$hole and still greatly desire him. Likewise, it does not matter what an undesirable man says or does, how nice, kind or toxic he may be-women will not be attracted to him regardless.

I appreciate your accurate assessment of my circumstances, though I don't have any issues with women on a casual basis. Not much I can do but pass the time the best I can until the inevitable.

It's all about the genetics so the clothing wrapper a man wears is irrelevant. Dress a short, ugly man with the most expensive clothes and he will still be unattractive. Likewise, Brad Pitt in the "worst" outfits possible is still going to have countless women drooling over him.

The error in your thinking is that by becoming less unattractive, a man then becomes attractive but this is not true. I have a gym body and am around 10% BF but my level of fitness has not helped me in the least as far as women goes. Don't get me wrong-self improvement is important for other...

Things you can improve upon can get better with work & effort. The error is in assuming that the things outside of your control (like how other people feel about you) will also improve but they often do not. What you are describing about your parents is due to survivorship bias-the fallacy...

BDD is only delusional if your results IRL contradict how you are feeling about yourself. If you know you are ugly because women are never even the slight bit interested in you then it's not a disorder to feel unattractive-it's just the cold, hard truth. Seems like we are in similar...

Being realistic is a very important aspect of life and being so called "negative" can often be an accurate reflection of a bad circumstance. If a person's life sucks and improving it is beyond their control, then being negative is a justified reaction and preferable to the most addictive and...

Most people will never tell the truth when it comes to an unattractive person's looks and there is a stromg tendency to virtue signal. That is why it is so critical to always looks at what someone actually does as opposed to listening to what they may say-like when a women claims that she finds...