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I might do! Every time I think about it though, I veer wildly from thinking she likes me to thinking she doesn't :( I don't really want to ruin my friendship with her, that's my main concern. Thank you for the replies Barba and Okie :)

It's interesting (in a terrifying way), I remember wondering how exactly some criminals are able to control crime outside prisons while incarcerated. The answer is quite simple: inmates often form into gangs and the longest-serving prisoners are free to make threats to criminals on the outside...

Yeah, I find this confusing. I've asked girls before what they're doing at the weekend just because I'm curious and they reply something like "I don't know, why?" Always makes me feel uncomfortable, because I'm not trying to get something from them, I just want to talk. I don't understand why...

When you lose course in life, you need a concrete objective I think. In fact, I'd say success in life is determined by the ability to set yourself objectives and stick with them until you attain them. Recently I was feeling pretty overwhelmed by my work and things were really starting to get...

I think it varies depending on the nature of how it's all made public. I like seeing cute couples happily existing and I don't get irritated when I see occasional pics of them cuddling or whatever on my timeline. It's pleasant to see people happy with each other. Crucially, seeing happy decent...

I'm not too fussy about physical attributes of girls, I find many women have attractive physical features in different ways. I do have a soft spot for girls with defined facial features though. For some reason I really like girls with a sharp jawline, just makes them look really kissable. Also...

Ladies, just curious here, before you had your first relationship did you find it tough to show guys that you liked them? There's a girl at the moment that always seems really happy talking to me and everything, often tries to be really helpful and is generally nice to me. She often makes it...

The overtime was worth it then? Hehe :D Nicely done.

On the other hand, if you lose her without doing anything that'll be a definite negative consequence. So you know what you have to do ;)

Option 1's always good for the long run if you feel asking her out is too tough right now. She'll at least get a hint that you're interested and probably be flattered that you appreciate her appearance :) At the same time though, a casual invitation to a coffee could simply be friendly, she...

Stick with it! You might find you end up loving it. When I started I just couldn't stand physical exercise, nowadays I relish it because it's so much easier than it used to be. It sounds like you're doing very well :)

Don't panic. People usually don't expect you constantly talk or carry conversation, especially if you're doing an activity. In my experience people like a listener - as someone who is shy, I've always been quite good at processing and retaining what people are talking about, I expect you are...

I'd say that you should make sure you at least say "hi" to her whenever you get the chance. If you don't say anything you're liable to make her think that you're not keen on her! All too often I've realised that being shy can actually make a person seem rude sometimes without realising. Ensure...

This. If a girl's just outright asking you for money, she is probably: A: Not at all independant B: Shameless, I mean most people have some sense of reluctance in asking for cash from friends or even partners And/or C: Trying to milk you for material possessions of some kind. None of those...

Lol, that does sound dark, brooding and mysterious I suppose :D When it comes to girls, I feel like I'm misleading them with my body. If they perhaps feel attracted to me in vests/shirts or whatever, they're not seeing the 'real' horrible me lurking underneath. I've managed to get away with a...

So it's summer, and everywhere around me guys are wandering around with their shirts off. This is basically something I wouldn't be seen dead doing, even if I was just with family or something. I'm jealous of the 99% guys that just have normal torsos. Skinny, muscular, fat, whatever - just...

Maths is obviously a crucial topic in education. I think a huge element of it is how it's taught. Ironically I'm a scientist (physical/chemical sciences too), so I have to do a fair bit of maths, but I still don't get on with it nearly as well as I do the rest of my University course. I think...

I took it to be an ironic reversal of Chigurh's assumption he's like an unstoppable agent of fate. He murders people all through the film, ignoring the moral consequences by leaving the choice up to "fate". Then right at the end something out of the blue totally catches him out, suggesting...

The photo is Tommy Lee Jones from No Country For Old Men (incidentally an excellent film that I highly recommend). Since AK's image link presumably expressed confusion (and in a light-hearted manner), please don't insult other members on the boards. No one here has a disliking for you, but...

Yeah, I know what you mean. I gained any "relationship insight" I have from girls who have asked me over the years to give them advice on their relationships! Irony right there... :P The number of girls that have talked to me about their BFs treating them poorly - it's just depressing...