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  1. MentatsGhoul

    Nerves.

    In essence, that's what I did. I'm still worried though. But at any rate, I have nothing more to add that I didn't already tell her, so I'll let it go for now, unless something comes to mind
  2. MentatsGhoul

    Nerves.

    I did tell her that. But it's just that, in my experience, it generally doesn't really change anything, it's rare for the other person to actually contact you based on that. I mean... it's not entirely impossible, but I very much doubt it. Primarily because she's rejected me in the past. She...
  3. MentatsGhoul

    Nerves.

    Alright, update time. Might make this a separate thread, but... idk. Just would appreciate some advice here. She replied last night, and said that she's glad I'm doing better but she hasn't changed her mind. But we did end up talking for a while. And... essentially, what came out was that she...
  4. MentatsGhoul

    Nerves.

    To be honest, yes, that is plausible in her case, and the reasonings she gave really sounded kinda... poor. I wasn't perfect, but she'd taken a few things too personally. Still, this doesn't really make me feel much better. It makes it more likely for her to come back I think, but hasn't...
  5. MentatsGhoul

    Any sites like this but for younger people?

    Well, that was enough to just shatter all my beliefs about the universe. Some days, the world can really surprise you
  6. MentatsGhoul

    Any sites like this but for younger people?

    I haven't met a single twenty four year old in my life, thus I have as much reason to believe they exist as unicorns, aliens or danish people.
  7. MentatsGhoul

    Nerves.

    So, bit of a long one. On my second day back to university about two weeks ago, my best (and only notable) friend sent me a cryptic message saying that she wanted to take a break from skype and the internet to focus on getting her life together, and that she'd "probably" talk to me again. It...
  8. MentatsGhoul

    Any sites like this but for younger people?

    Most active users here are 25 at the youngest. I honestly even feel most users are in their 30s and 40s. At least that's what I've noticed. Not that many people in the 18-23 range. I'm 20 and I feel like a baby on this site sometimes, though, thankfully most people here aren't quick to point out...
  9. MentatsGhoul

    I'm starting to understand why people become "players"

    To an extent I agree, but then... I honestly feel like for the most part, it's true. I'm not just a socially awkward nerd or whatever. I'm someone who genuinely has no friends. Even online friends, I'm not able to keep for more than a year in the best of cases for the most part. I'm just...
  10. MentatsGhoul

    I'm starting to understand why people become "players"

    I kinda feel embarrassed reading back at this thread and surprised it's still popping up after so long. Wish it would stay buried, I feel like my cringey overanalyzing of random girls looking at me and my stupid use of language aren't that great to look back on, like I've changed so much in such...
  11. MentatsGhoul

    What are you thinking right now?

    I miss her so much... Why did she have to leave now, out of nowhere, after all we've been through
  12. MentatsGhoul

    Had my first date in 2 and a half years! Reaction - meh.

    I don't think it's really your fault at all. I mean, it sucks not feeling physical attraction to someone, but honestly, if a person is gonna give a false impression about their looks on their profile, they should expect some disappointment. It's a cruel but true. You went on two dates, so you...
  13. MentatsGhoul

    Anyone wanna talk....

    Fair enough. I'm currently working on a fantasy/sci-fi novel and am finishing my undergraduate degree in a politics related course, I like video games, I enjoy talking about TV shows. I suffer from depression and likely have an anxiety disorder. I live in England, but am likely moving to the...
  14. MentatsGhoul

    Anyone wanna talk....

    I know I'm not really worth talking to but... I have nowhere to turn. Twenty years old, bit of a nerd. Nothing much else to say
  15. MentatsGhoul

    What are you feeling, hoping, thinking, or remembering right now?

    There's one specific mantra I've gotten so sick of lately. Basically the one stating that don't regret your failures because they're all an opportunity to learn something. You know, I believed that honeysuckle for years. I guess objectively, it's still a relatively good attitude. But at this point, it...
  16. MentatsGhoul

    Lost another friend...

    Looks like it. The typical message a bit less for a few days, and then she suddenly left mid-conversation without saying anything, and hasn't messaged me again since. I really hate that. We'd had a few fights before, but otherwise things were going decent, we even agreed to try to improve our...
  17. MentatsGhoul

    Accepting romance will never be a part of your life

    Look. I know this just sounds like another self-defeating, overdramatic thread. I know all the responses are probably just gonna be "But you're young, things can change!". But, trust me when I say, I know myself, and I gotta face facts. I know it probably sounds like I'm exaggerating. I'm quite...
  18. MentatsGhoul

    True of False-If you wear glasses these days, you aren't even trying

    I wouldn't say you're automatically lazy. But, as someone who wears contacts whenever I leave the house, I just don't see NOT wearing them. I look so much worse with glasses (they suit some people, but not me, not by a long shot), and I find glasses extremely uncomfortable, it literally only...
  19. MentatsGhoul

    What are you thinking right now?

    I don't understand myself anymore. I've tried to write out all I'm feeling three or four times now, but I can't form it in a coherent way. It's just... god I wish I could talk to her 24/7. She keeps saying that I'll get bored of her or be put off by her at some point, but, I don't see it. I wish...
  20. MentatsGhoul

    Not being noticed

    I can relate. It always saddens me a little when I see other guys have girls who actually go out of their way to get their attention. I had that happen a few times as a teenager, but pretty much never since adulthood. I guess what I personally tell myself is, sure, it would be great having...
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