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I have lost hope that I'll ever have a girlfriend. I suffer from self esteem issues and find it hard meeting new people and impossible to approach women. To make matters worse I'm jobless and living back at home at 33. I know there's no point even bothering trying to meet anyone in my current...

Thanks for the replies and I apologize for vanishing (i've been in an accident amongst other things). Well, i haven't stopped drinking but i have decided to change my habits. I've cut down drastically and might do so even more.I feel better for it and started to notice the situations where i'm...

Since being a teenager I've always drank alcohol to ease my discomfort in social situations, but am now beginning to think it's been more of a curse than a blessing. I start off uncomfortable and awkward, so have a few drinks to "relax", but by the time i feel sufficiently relaxed and at ease...

That is part of the problem i guess. As I've got older everyone has kind of paired up and settled down so my social circle for the most part comprises of single guys. Everyone has sort of gone off in different directions and I'm stood here wondering where everyone went! It doesn't help that I...

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Hi Tiina, my family would be supportive but i haven't told them. I've been bottling it up and feeling like i don't want to worry anyone, or look like I'm struggling. I haven't been to the doctor either. I know that i should speak to someone...I just can't seem to go through with it :(

Sorry about the delay in answering, i've been trying to fix my life a little and haven't been online so much. TBH, i don't do all that much online. I read stuff, watch the odd bit of tv etc...i've been looking for n online game or something to pass the time when i'm alone. What about you?

Thanks for the replies everyone, sorry i disappeared. i've been trying to alter my life a little.i've cut down on drinking and started exercising and try to be out of the house a lot. i have tried ignoring the fact i'm depressed and it really hasn't helped so the next step is asking for some...

I seem to be losing all my friends. They're all moving away and have families, jobs etc. and other friends, and i only have one or two friends i see anything of, and that isn't very often. I have social issues that I'm only beginning to address and it makes it hard for me to meet new people. I...

Thanks, it's good to know I'm not alone. It's a shame you feel the same though, because I know how much it can hurt.

I'm a new member so hello everyone. Well the title pretty much sums my problem up. I've never had a girlfriend and have never had sex and the older I get the more insecure I fell about it. I feel like I'm missing out on some integral part of the human experience and it's getting me pretty down...