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I need to correct my previous post. On Bumble if you have a match women have 24 hours to start chatting, as a man you cannot force this. This is a trick to make you pay, because if they don't respond you would pay to prolong once or indefinitely. I just lost 2 matches like this, so the question...

I will start with one date. I feel like being faithful even though I haven't met her yet. This African woman insisted I see her first, but I can't, because I don't have time right now, I need to prepare things for the trip I'm taking this week to Gran Canaria. I told her about the Brazilian...

Suddenly several women take an interest in me on dating sites, and I have a date tomorrow with this attractive Brazilian woman. Also, I will make a trip to Gran Canaria at the end of the week, just before starting my new job. I wish the trip would have been with one of the women who take an...

It seems that suddenly several real profiles took an interest in me, and not just some of those fake bots. If everything goes well I should be dating an attractive Brazilian woman (40, me 53) tomorrow evening. I could also date a woman from Kenya (40), and some other profiles I matched with are...

Meanwhile things are starting to look better for me. My new job will start on January 9th, again in IT. I should earn slightly more than the place I came from.

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Wishing everyone a merry Christmas or other festive day today.

Well, I told her I didn't want her to send me any messages anymore, and I also told her she was on my ignore list. But if the other person would be reasonable, she would not have gotten on my ignore list in the first place.

What happened was this: 1) I had a private conversation with someone here. 2) Her messages got less friendly after a while, so I put her on the ignore list 3) Suddenly, weeks later I get another message within this same private message thread. The message has a 'hidden' part because I put her...

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So you have follow people then in order to be able to receive a message. Hmm, seems a bit drastic then. I only have 1 person like that for the moment, and I have had several very nice conversations here.

I only have 1 person on my ignore list at this time. Strangely enough this person can still send me messages. I blocked her on October 19th, and to my surprise I got another message about 45 minutes ago. It says "show blocked content" but if I do that the only comment that is supposed to be...

The circus pose is supposed to indicated that they feel muzzled, they can't talk about them for fear of being sanctioned. But it might look comical, of course.

And Belgium 's already lost the championship. It's a good thing I don't care about football. So I guess I now hope Portugal will win.

I think one important reason is that people mimic the behaviour of politicians. These days often they don't even try to have a debate, they just tweet their own opinion, and the others are more seen as enemies than as opponents. I take Spanish conversation classes, and I can see how people in...

True, it's something I find hard to grasp, I have a Spanish friend, and we have very opposing political views. We know this of each other, yet we are capable of each giving their point of view, and there are no rows about this. This is how it should be, I think. But it feels to me that many...

I had this black girl remove me from facebook because I put an "ALL LIVES MATTER" banner (I thought of that slogan myself, but apparently so did others). I just didn't like this BLM slogan, because it's as if the rest of it doesn't matter. It reminds me of those slogans you used to see over...

A long time ago (20 years or so) I was experimenting with dates at a dating site. One of them didn't want to show her photo but she assured me she was quite pretty, she told me we could meet, but we wouldn't be able to French kiss unless I would bleach my teeth. I told her that I read that this...

Guess I'm just too shy to perform that kind of approach, maybe I should just go for a *** date, though I guess that is not so easy for me. I am surprised that they also use bots for women, one would think that with the huge number of testosterone on those apps/sites available, there would be no...

My experience with dating apps is quite negative for the moment. Many fraudulent profiles, also people who "match" with you but don't answer to any messages, yet they don't unmatch you either, some openly saying in their profile they are prostitutes. Not easy to have a real meeting with a woman...