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i think the real question is why do you believe there is a literal hell in the first place?

only for men with good enough genetics.  otherwise, being young & having more time ahead just means many more years of loneliness & rejection to look forward to.

"Why date such a range of unattractive women when they could just keep hooking up with the more attractive ones? I will give you that maybe it doesn't work the same way in a small town... I live in a small town and people basically take what they can get (is how it appears to me, anyway)." this...

"From my observations, mgill seems to have a chip on his shoulder. Maybe I'm wrong, maybe I'm not, but from what I've seen" you are completely wrong here. in fact, if anything i have been told i am too nice. none of what i say here is ever repeated IRL as it makes no sense to vent to women i...

"Women don't want to be bothered at bars when they're out with friends, or meetups, certainly not at work" while they don't want to be bothered by average or ugly men, they are always open for attention from top tier males even if they are not particularly interested in dating them. validation...

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so only of average height-even with your accent that's not going to help you in the states unless you are also well above average facially. no idea about places like Japan or other countries. i have seen a some older women at the gym who take good care of themselves and who are very attractive...

very sorry to hear about your struggles and loss i may not be of much help to you but in my experience false hope is one of the most addictive and destructive drugs. i truly hope you are able to find what you are searching for but realistically the odds are against you and many men will...

Kaetic has good advice as i seem to recall that ardour is also over 6' so in addition to his NZ accent, his height would be a tremendous advantage in finding a women in the US & Canada. too bad it would take travelling halfway across the globe just to have a chance at a relationship. sadly for...

this quote was meant as a critique of religious beliefs but also aptly applies to those in complete denial of the utter dominance of lookism & heightism in the modern female dating scene: “The truth may be puzzling. It may take some work to grapple with. It may be counter intuitive. It may...

no-i am not an avoidant type and don't think i have especially high standards and would be extremly satisfied with my looksmatch of an average to below looking women in very good shape. as long as a women is physically fit and feminine i usually find her attractive regardless of her race or...

thank you for sharing.  i have heard of this book and Frankl but have not read it so perhaps i will look into doing so.  i think people are far too different to all be placed in the same category though. the idea that everyone has control over their own happiness is an alluring one but is not...

thank you for your empathy.  it was the fifth time i had to go through losing a dog and it never got any easier.  platonic love is great but it is no replacement for romatic love-at least not in my case. for some people not having a relationship is fine and they can be content on their own but...

" I just don't get why there is this determination not to see what Mgill is talking about here, not saying you have to agree with him on everything. " imo it is a combination of the Just World fallacy and the huge dichotomy between the dating world for men & women. the vast majority of women...

i can assure you that i am in no way comfortable where i am at and would do just about anything to change it for the better. what you suggest may be true if it were a case of having another person's interest and then having things fail due to my intentional actions.  for me this has never...

"Gaslighting is an emotionally-abusive strategy that causes someone to question their feelings, thoughts, and sanity. Someone who employs gaslighting tries to convince the other that their own perception of reality is wrong. The purpose of this is to convince the person being gaslit that they...

the dating world is a far different place now.  perhaps what you suggest was true in the past but it does not apply in the present market. i have found that often times the shorter a women is, the taller she demands her male partner to be.  if a man is short but good looking enough, he may still...

is it by choice or due to lack of options?  there is a world of difference between the two.

you have had past success (perhaps even a lot of it) with women so that explains your attitude and you must be physically attractive & tall enough for it to happen again if/when you are ready. experiended validation in the past you would not be able to relate to those of us who have not or have...

there is a reason that solitary confinement is the worst punishment in prison. i have many other things go very well for me including being physically ripped, being in tremendous health and having zero debt along with a great job where i make over100k but the fact that i have no one to share...