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  1. mgill

    Lets see the Faces!!!

    perhaps correct, but this does not make the rejections an easier to accept. i just wish they would have told me the truth that they were simply not attracted to me instread of making up a lame excuse to try and let me down more gently. once again a very good question.  as i said, i thought i...
  2. mgill

    Lets see the Faces!!!

    i am well over 35 actually. not sure if that makes things better or worse though.
  3. mgill

    Lets see the Faces!!!

    oh, i freely admit that this is an unhealthy habit that i need to stop doing ASAP. i don't even indudge in it too much except when i am feeling really down-which seems to be often these days. i would not say i am blaming anyone per say either-i'm just very bitter about my physical appearance...
  4. mgill

    Lets see the Faces!!!

    not extreme advice at all really and i appreciate the suggestions. i was in great shape when the photo was taken and am now quite ripped (150 lbs at around 10% BF) as i have been doing intense weight training for decades. i'm currently pretty close to my natural physical limits without resorting...
  5. mgill

    Am I short for a guy?

    stats show that only around 4% of women  are OK with a man shorter than themselves. i'm not saying it's impossible just extremely rare. lol-i only wish more women thought like you Amy. in my experience most do not compare a man's height to their own but instead they compare a man's height...
  6. mgill

    Do you ever feel like your soul is crying ....or something inside like that

    i gave that up long ago & am too empty to feel sadness. for me, it's more of an ever present heaviness in my chest which is a constant reminder of a miserable past and an extremely bleak future with the present not being much better either.
  7. mgill

    What's a painful truth you've had to swallow?

    the critical importance of height, facial appearance & hair to attract a partner. the fact that our potential quality of life was determined entirely at birth by their genes does not give lesser males much of a shot at being happy, fulfilled or content-unless they learn to be satisfied being...
  8. mgill

    Am I short for a guy?

    i cannot speak to the bulling consequence of being short but study after study makes the exact same conclusion when it comes to female dating preference in regards to male height. "Women want taller men more than men want shorter women"...
  9. mgill

    Evolutionary Biologist: Many men will no longer find a sexual partner

    exactly-imo without mutual attraction & an emotional connection getting physical is empty, meaningless & often makes a man feel even worse. personally, i could never feel comfortable being physical with a stranger-especially for money.
  10. mgill

    Lets see the Faces!!!

    i would like to thank everyone for their very kind words & suggestions.  i can assure you though that your thoughts on my appearance have not been born out by my attempts at dating.  to summarize, despite numerous attemps (i lost count so don't have a good figure), i have not been on a single...
  11. mgill

    Lets see the Faces!!!

    i never claimed to be hideous-just below average looking which i quite obviously am. my not good enough face is also only one aspect along with being too short & bald, which even you admit, makes a huge diference.  i don't have any photo's of myself with hair as it was hard enough to find this...
  12. mgill

    Lets see the Faces!!!

    i may regret this but here it goes: https://ibb.co/w4d1Zfc
  13. mgill

    Why Women Have Totally Unrealistic Standards for Men, Dating, and Marriage

    not all the time-just the vast majority of time as the video i posted showed.  some people just refuse to accept the harsh truth and instead prefer to live in a fantasy world of rainbows & unicorns. they are both required but are complimentary. the better a man's face is the shorter he can be...
  14. mgill

    Why Women Have Totally Unrealistic Standards for Men, Dating, and Marriage

    no worries-i'm not offended in the least.  in fact, there is very little if anything that can offend me to tell the truth. i think the fact that i do have those things going for me yet have still had zero success with women is good evidence about how critical a man's height is. there are some...
  15. mgill

    Why Women Have Totally Unrealistic Standards for Men, Dating, and Marriage

    that would be fine if male height was not the single biggest factor in a women finding a man physically attractive.  i would assume that you are least of average height if not taller so cannot relate to the struggles of short men.
  16. mgill

    Am I short for a guy?

    an eye opening look into the life of a man who is truly short- i can most certainly relate personally to his experience being only an inch taller than the author. https://thoughtcatalog.com/andrea-benito/2012/09/short-men-eww-theyre-genetically-deformed/
  17. mgill

    Evolutionary Biologist: Many men will no longer find a sexual partner

    i have never been out of the US so can only speak of things here. due to the marriage laws, mail order brides are the worst possible solution as it's very probable one would end up divorced & giving half of their wealth to their former spouse. personally, i have no interest in marriage for this...
  18. mgill

    Why Women Have Totally Unrealistic Standards for Men, Dating, and Marriage

    if one can ignore the religious themes, this 2017 video exposes many harsh truths about the modern dating world for men. H6ONHDmDD8s
  19. mgill

    Evolutionary Biologist: Many men will no longer find a sexual partner

    i have heard that this is the case in some other countries- it is most certainly the case in places like the US, Canada & the UK though.  some have suggested that relocating is a possible solution but it requires a tremendous amount of risk with still no no guarantee of success.  quitting your...
  20. mgill

    Evolutionary Biologist: Many men will no longer find a sexual partner

    yes-i think most women are only interested in men well above their own looks level & would rather share a high value male or stay alone than to "settle" for the other 80% of lesser males.  the problem they have is that although good looking men may sleep with women who are not at their looks...
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