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I definitely have this anxiety whenever I'm abroad. In this country, nobody actually relies on tips and it's very unusual to give them. At most, you round off the amount you pay in a restaurant. I've seen people try to give a tip and they were refused and treated like they were crazy. The whole...

Most software developers I know are (seemingly) well-adjusted. I wouldn't worry too much about it :)

Thanks for the welcome, and sorry for a long-winded sob story again. Feels good to write it anonymously. There's nobody in "real life" I can talk to about this. People have all sorts of funny ideas of what it means to be lonely, and in particular I don't want anyone at work to know (you really...

I know this is isn't going to sound new and exciting to anybody, but here we go anyway. My issue is quite simply that I am constantly rejected and left out of everything. It has been a problem for me as far back as I can remember. I often imagine there's a "wrongness" that people can sense...