To stop making resolutions.
They're unrealistic, they make you depressed when you realize you're falling short, and frankly despite it being nice in theory, it's a way of chaining people with guilt over not being normal.
I live with my parents because my job is not regular or well-paying enough for anything but homelessness. A resolution would tell me to be depressed at the very least, or at the most to seek after an apartment. But as said before, I can't really afford one, and it would eat up all my extra money just to give the appearance of "normal". Why should I feel guilty about having a family that loves me, rent-free housing, and basically being able to work on a schedule that if I find anyone to care about I can take off work to spend it with them?
So maybe my resolution would be asking someone out. After all, I have no such significant other. Hmmmm... nah. I've been in three or four so-called relationships where I basically pursued people who seemed interested in me. Only they had no business pursuing me because they were taken. So for all that effort, all I get is emotionally messed up, dependent, and depressed that I'm still single.
I suppose I could make the resolution to come out with my crossdressing. As gratifying as that is though, we live in a small town with three (used to be four) nearby churches. I don't relish getting beat up or ostracized by any so-called "godly" people (I was always taught that God was about forgiveness and acceptance, and this is the type of church I favor, but half the people I meet seem to equate religion with bigoted meddling). Nahhhhhh...