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Do you plan to achieve anything in 2013? Learn a language, lose 10 pounds, blow up a building?

I plan to finish P90X and P90X2.

What about you? :)
 
Thinking of maybe going for 2560x1440 this year, who knows! It is pretty ambitious. I don't really want my framerate to suffer though.
 
I make a resolution every week...and then break it by midweek. Why should the week of New Year's be any different. ;)
 
I'm keeping it simple. I'm going to try to write and publish more stories/poems online in 2013 than I did in 2012. That shouldn't be too difficult.
 
2013 could be my first full year without smoking a cigarette in 20 years.
 
I made a promise to myself that on 12:01, 1/1/13, I would let it go.

No matter how heartwrenchingly painful it will be or how positively wretched it is inevitably going to make me feel, I would put it in a metaphorical box, seal it with a kiss and bury it.

I plan to do my best to make good on that promise. I hope I can.
 
To stop making resolutions.

They're unrealistic, they make you depressed when you realize you're falling short, and frankly despite it being nice in theory, it's a way of chaining people with guilt over not being normal.

I live with my parents because my job is not regular or well-paying enough for anything but homelessness. A resolution would tell me to be depressed at the very least, or at the most to seek after an apartment. But as said before, I can't really afford one, and it would eat up all my extra money just to give the appearance of "normal". Why should I feel guilty about having a family that loves me, rent-free housing, and basically being able to work on a schedule that if I find anyone to care about I can take off work to spend it with them?

So maybe my resolution would be asking someone out. After all, I have no such significant other. Hmmmm... nah. I've been in three or four so-called relationships where I basically pursued people who seemed interested in me. Only they had no business pursuing me because they were taken. So for all that effort, all I get is emotionally messed up, dependent, and depressed that I'm still single.

I suppose I could make the resolution to come out with my crossdressing. As gratifying as that is though, we live in a small town with three (used to be four) nearby churches. I don't relish getting beat up or ostracized by any so-called "godly" people (I was always taught that God was about forgiveness and acceptance, and this is the type of church I favor, but half the people I meet seem to equate religion with bigoted meddling). Nahhhhhh...
 
1) Patch things up with some estranged family.

2) Start and stick to a good exercise regime.

3) Whether or not I make many new friends, become better at socializing offline.

4) Learn at least a few new songs.

5) Finish at least one story for one of the many communities I hang around.

Still thinking of some.
 

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