5 People On A Lonely Life

[Lonely in BC]

To you, dear gentleman,

I had a mad crush on you. A few months ago you messaged me out of the blue; and I thought to check up on these forums recently. For some reason, you came into my mind a few days ago and haven't left since then. I wasted several hours of my life with my awesome internet-detective skills and have learned that you are happy now and have a partner.

It's a strange feeling that I have right now though...kinda like the feeling of loss of what could've been something very happy for me if I had you. Well, if we had the opportunity to meet and you were interested in me as well. But alas, our paths never crossed and it was just never was meant to be.

What I'm really glad about though is that you're happy now. You deserve every bit of it. I truly mean it.

(Also, I say "*had* a mad crush" because saying "I have a mad crush" on some online stranger that's happily living his life - probably seems creepy. Not to worry though; I'll be okay.)

Even though I'm in a much better place right now...I kinda wish to go back during those dark times where we both were hurting and comforted each other during our late night chats. If I could, I would change some of the things that I've said (cause I was very off-putting and whiny at times); and seriously took up your suggestion of meeting you.
-cough- My habit of my never-ending long-winded miserable, depressing rants and continuous whining with sprinkles of TMI, made me too embarrassed to meet you - or anyone from here. That's probably the biggest reason why I didn't try to meet you...fear of "preconceived notions"...if those are the right words?
Also, I'm assuming you meant it and wasn't saying it out of politeness, as many before you have.

Even if nothing actually came from it, you are just so ******* awesome that it'd warm my heart to be associated with such a great person.

Nonetheless, I'm glad that you finally found yourself a beautiful girl that sees you for how wonderful you are.

SEE? I WAS RIGHT. I TOLD YOU TO STOP DOOMING YOURSELF AND YOU WERE SEXY AND YOU'D FIND LOVE. FFS. SHEESH.

We should've bet money on it.

This is something I can relate too as its happened to me as well. Isn't it interesting how it's the ones who somehow slip away are the ones that we wish we'd tried harder for. Sigh, sometimes the opportunity to be able to turn back time would be so welcome.....

 

[VanillaCreme]

1) Honestly, I think the two of us would have more of a connection than the other person who talks to you all the time.
2) I don't know what happened to you, but I wish you didn't have to be like that.
3) Oh please, you're such a sarcastic fake person, that I don't even know if anyone - online or in person - actually knows who you are. And you have the nerve, the gall, the audacity to be rude and mean and downright disrespectful to nearly everyone, but you do it in a way that keeps you safe. You think you're smart, but you'll slip up eventually.
4) I don't think I want to be bothered with you anymore. You always want everyone to listen to you, but as soon as someone starts talking, you could care less about what they're saying. Protip: If you want someone to talk to you, at least have the decency to listen a bit. If you don't even care about that, then don't waste hours of their day with your senseless ****.
5) I'm sorry that you're going through that, but I don't want to hear about it anymore. I tried as nice as I could to explain to you what was going to happen. All you wanted to do was defend their action, and defend your action back to them. I told you. You'll have to get up pretty early in the morning to outsmart me. I'm rarely ever wrong.

 

[Sterling]

1) I wish you weren't so stressed out. You don't deserve how people are treating you here or in real life. Don't tone yourself down, you're awesome
2) You're really annoying. Applies to MANY people.
3) I don't know why I even bother. It's not like you're going to actually do something.
4) Copy and pasting Nilla's #3, because it fits perfectly "Oh please, you're such a sarcastic fake person, that I don't even know if anyone - online or in person - actually knows who you are. And you have the nerve, the gall, the audacity to be rude and mean and downright disrespectful to nearly everyone, but you do it in a way that keeps you safe. You think you're smart, but you'll slip up eventually."
5. You're two-faced. Applies to many people.

 

[Barbaloot]

1. (Insert vague, passive-aggressive comment directed at someone who will know it's about them.)
2. (Insert an even more vague, passive-aggressive comment directed at a lot of people.)
3 - 5: (Repeat steps #1 and #2)

Am I doing it right?

 

[SophiaGrace]

1.) Can't think of anything to say ( applies to almost everyone)
2.) You're nice
3.) Thanks for being nice to me
4.) Thanks for TRYING to be nice to me. i appreciate the attempt.
5.) I really would get you the chocolate. I hate seeing you sad.
6.) I don't understand why you've always been so distant from me. Your choice though I suppose. I still care about you, no matter what.

 

[Dark_Poet]

1. I'm sorry you feel left out, Lots of hugs your way
2. You misunderstood me, I just didn't feel comfortable was all.
3. Thank you once again for listening
4. Thank you for helping me get to this point (Everyone)
5. Thank you for sharing your pain with me (everyone that has ever shared with me)

 

[TheSolitaryMan]

If you have any specific issue with other members, please address these to myself or another moderator.

We don't do open hostility here - and we don't do veiled hostility, either. This thread started out as a positive celebration of the good we have in the community, and I dislike this recent trend of insulting other members "covertly".

Thank you

 

[SophiaGrace]

If you have any specific issue with other members, please address these to myself or another moderator.

We don't do open hostility here - and we don't do veiled hostility, either. This thread started out as a positive celebration of the good we have in the community, and I dislike this recent trend of insulting other members "covertly".

Thank you

You could edit the original post on this thread, and put in a moderator note. Because, this post of yours is going to get lost in this thread.

 

[TheSolitaryMan]

You could edit the original post on this thread, and put in a moderator note. Because, this post of yours is going to get lost in this thread.

Done, thanks for the suggestion

I just wanted a short-term reminder really, I've been disappointed recently with this sort of behaviour.

Anyway, to make this post worthwhile, here's a rather vague list of my own:

1. Really cool people and it's nice to talk to you more.
2. You've been very supportive and friendly towards me, thank you.
3. I really appreciate all of your advice.
4. I feel like you're a really good friend to me, better than many of those I've met in reality.
5. I like how you always give me such a friendly welcome.

 

[whispers]

1. Im happy things are looking up for you
2. You couldnt even imagine how much positive thoughts i,m sending to you, because i think you are sooo hard on yourself, please stop it... thats what enemies are for.
3. You must be sooo beautifull, your posts are comforting
4. you always make me smile, unless you are not doing well
5. i appreciate your friendship

 

[Callie]

1. I hate having to watch what I say to you, I hate not knowing how you're going to react, I hate ******* up because I'm afraid you'll look down on me for it (this actually applies to two people)
2. You're awesome and I love you and I'm glad you came back
3. I'd like to get to know you better, you seem pretty damn nice
4. I wish I knew what you were really thinking
5. You'll get your damn guacamole (eventually) :club:

 

[Drama]

1. I hate having to watch what I say to you, I hate not knowing how you're going to react, I hate ******* up because I'm afraid you'll look down on me for it (this actually applies to two people)

I feel the same about an ALL member (wary)

 

[Barbaloot]

1. You're awesome, bro.
2. I'm a little worried about you.
3. Even though we've drifted apart, I'm really glad (and surprised) to hear how much progress you're making. You've already made so much in the time I've known you. Keep it up.
4. I demand that you make me those beer-batter fried avocado tacos. As soon as you get your chametz back.
5. I <3 you (applies to a few people.)

 

[ghbarnaby2]

1. I love you! (applies to everyone)
2. Those tacos are coming your way.....after Shabbat is over. lol.
3. You're amazing! (applies to everyone)
4. Marvelous happy wishes your way (applies to everyone)
5. rawr (hello) (yum) #hellobaby (also completely indiscriminate)

 

[Badjedidude]

1. Grow the **** up, kid.
2. I'd have a crush on you if you were actually within travelling distance. If it seems like I keep my distance sometimes, it's because I refuse to let myself get attached online. I don't do online relationships. Period. (I guess this one could apply to a couple ALLers).
3. I don't always agree with what you say, but I like that you'll fight to be right.
4. I am your bro, and there's nothing you can do about it.
5. I think you're making a mistake.

 

[VanillaCreme]

1) Bar
2) Ba
3) Looooooooooooooooooooooot
4) Did y'all figure it out? (smirk)
5) And it ain't Jedi.

 

[Barbaloot]

1) Bar
2) Ba
3) Looooooooooooooooooooooot
4) Did y'all figure it out? (smirk)
5) And it ain't Jedi.

<3

 

[Badjedidude]

5) And it ain't Jedi.

Yes huh.

 

[SophiaGrace]

5) And it ain't Jedi.

Yes huh.

Ain't nothing but a Jedi

 

[Sterling]

1. You're still tiny, even if your hair is nice x]
2. Gotcha
3. You're one of my favorite people on here (hug).
4. I guess you're right. It's not my fault. I don't think it's worth getting even for though. Thanks for the advice anyways.
5. You're forgiven.