5 Ways to Move on From an Ex

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I have to get a girlfriend first, before I worry about having an ex.............
 
I like the first tip: remove from all social media, I think that extends to all chat programs, cell phone number, and such.
When you are sure they are and will be your ex, at least for a while, you will have the heart to do it, I believe.
 
Unfriend, Un-follow, Un-Everything!
Pick Positivity
Get a Hobby

Definitely these! These helped me alot!

If I wanted, I could stalk my ex with many ways. I know her password in many places, I know many of her usernames in diffenrent forums/blogs, I could ask my friend anytime etc.

But I don't. Best way is just to forget and give yourself time. I started to focus my very own future. Before we broke up I forgot my own life, I just wanted to be with her. It was a mistake.

Now I've lots of new goals and things I want to do. And I don't have to give a f**k what my ex is thinking. If I want to move abroad for a year, I can do it and I don't need to care her or anyone's opinions.
 
Keep busy, being productive in something else is distracting. It eases the pain a bit. Focus on building you, so if by chance they pop up you won't feel like crap. Remember that you will grieve eventually, no matter how happy you are without them. You'll know when your done when your less worried about being without them and more worried about being without someone. Throw away keepsakes that remind you of them. Don't contact them. New is the way out. Replace the time you used to spend with them. get a schedule and stick to it. Dream of something different. Friends help. Sweets and angry music do too lol. Remember one day you'll wake up and that person will mean less to you romatically than a stranger.
 
Jump on a bus, leave town, and never call back....

15 years later its still working ;)
 

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