A serious question! Yo.

[Infexis]

Hi again. owo Missed me? *shrugs* nevermind x3

I'm in an relationship with a wonderful girl. She's the best We're in an online relationship. We've been together fer... meh, I don't remember. We've known eachother for more than 2 years now. And we've only been "together" for a week... She came down from america to visit me in sweden for only a week ^^ Awesome, right? Anyways, she was the first person to have ever really hugged me. She introduced physical touch to my world xP Then she went away again o3o ....
Nice side-out.

Bad side-in.
Physical touch is something... unique to me. Something "holy" xD
So in a conversation we had a couple of days ago. She says how much she loves me, and I ask her "the world or me?" and she says me. Of course.
Then she writes about how many people she's cuddled with. And hugged and, other stuff.

In my eyes, my opinions doesn't matter. I shouldn't be annoyed or anything by this... As long as she's happy. See, she's a very social person.
And she has a tendency to... well, not put me into consideration. When I propose something we could do, if she doesn't like it, it's an instant no. No more about that. Stuff like that.

Now, the question is;
Should I be bothered by this? Is this wrong? Am I overreacting?

 

[Oscillate_Wildly]

She came all the way from America to visit you in Sweden? Why are you even questioning anything?

 

[Infexis]

She came all the way from America to visit you in Sweden? Why are you even questioning anything?

Thank you!

 

[tehdreamer]

Hugging and cuddling doesn't mean as much to people who get to do so all the time. Most people hug and cuddle with their friends. She probably doesn't know how much it means to you and how it bothers you that she's hugging other people. You should tell her it bothers you and ask her not to tell you about how many other people she's hugging.

Communication is key to a good relationship. Don't let things bother you and not speak up, because it will ruin things later on. It's best to just talk it out. She loves you, so she will understand.

 

[Infexis]

^^' I have told her.

 

[Doubt The Rabbit]

Aw, that's adorable

 

[VanillaCreme]

Dreamer is right. Hugs and cuddles and all that lovey stuff doesn't really matter to people who get them often. Because it's just like another thing they do. But if you told her, then she should care and take your thoughts into consideration. If she still doesn't, then you've probably picked a selfish person when it comes to what you want in the relationship. You can't change how she is, so you either deal with it or you don't.