A woman said she liked me and I said nothing

[Triple Bogey]

I think I know where she works, I cycle past it on my way to the golf course !

 

[Rosebolt]

That's great news Bogey, i hope this works out great for you!

 

[Triple Bogey]

That's great news Bogey, i hope this works out great for you!

don't get too excited, there is no way I will have the courage to pop in and see if I am right.

 

[Batman55]

If I were you I would more assertive for once. Next time you see her, ask if she wants to go out for coffee, something like that.

 

[Triple Bogey]

If I were you I would more assertive for once. Next time you see her, ask if she wants to go out for coffee, something like that.

I hope she comes in soon and I get the chance !

 

[Rosebolt]

^ Don't let her be in control of that chance. Try to create it! You did say you were going to visit her workplace! This is your chance! Go Triple Bogey! *Cheers*

 

[Triple Bogey]

^ Don't let her be in control of that chance. Try to create it! You did say you were going to visit her workplace! This is your chance! Go Triple Bogey! *Cheers*

I don't know. Going to her workplace seems like stalking. And I don't want to do that.

 

[Rosebolt]

^ She comes to your workplace too! Maybe she did that just to see you on numerous occasions!

 

[Triple Bogey]

^ She comes to your workplace too! Maybe she did that just to see you on numerous occasions!

I will see what happens next week. I might be completely wrong about her workplace, it's only me guessing. I think she comes to my workplace on the way to work. She does say 'hi' first though and try and start conversations with me. I can't wait for her to come in. I just want to see / know what her reaction will be. I have a sneaky feeling she is married though. She looks married.

 

[ringwood]

I'm curious..how does one 'look' married? I mean aside from the obvious ring, which can always be taken off.

 

[Triple Bogey]

I'm curious..how does one 'look' married? I mean aside from the obvious ring, which can always be taken off.

ha ha ! Just past experience, nice, friendly women tend to be married.
She came into the shop with a younger woman. The way they talked suggested it was her daughter and she ordered 2 different type of cigs, one for her and one for someone else.

 

[Triple Bogey]

well the holidays are over so she should come in the shop next week sometime.
I am wondering what will happen. I have her and the Saturday woman to think about. Pretty much impossible to make any progress given the circumstances (the shop is too busy, people overhearing etc) - I wish I would get a break and bump into either one of them somewhere else.

 

[SofiasMami]

So what would you like to do or say when either one comes in?

-Teresa

 

[Triple Bogey]

So what would you like to do or say when either one comes in?

-Teresa

The Saturday woman is awkward, the shop is really busy. I am always on the till 9am to 12 so I usually get to serve her. Last week I didn't because there was a big queue and I called for another member of staff to help me. I usually chat while I am scanning her products and packing her bags. People are nearby and impatient to get served. I could in the future ask her what she does. I make comments about what she buys. She does a lot of baking. I have no idea what her circumstances are, if she 'has someone' - she hasn't mentioned it. She has mentioned her mother, brother and cousins. No wedding ring. No know her name begins with A, her address as well and phone number. I got that information when she entered a raffle before xmas.

The other one comes in early during the week and it would be quite easy to chat, less people about. I suppose if she came in tomorrow, I could still mention what she said on boxing day. Ask her why she had a 'crap Christmas' - unless she was making fun out of me, those compliments must have meant something. It looks promising, that's why I am eager to see what happens. I do think it was just some xmas good will though.

 

[Triple Bogey]

This other woman came into today. It wasn't busy and I had a lovely chat with her. She's a lovely woman and plays golf, so I mostly talked about that. She's married, she has mentioned her husband. The way we talked, I could have easily asked her out or asked her if she wanted a game of golf. I had the opportunity, nothing or nobody got in the way. But of course I didn't because she's married and it wasn't appropriate. I don't seem to get the same chance with the single women, something gets in the way. I know it crazy but it's like the universe is geared against me. I don't get a chance or a break with available women.

The one who paid me all the compliments, I haven't seen her since. It's sod's law. She should be in tomorrow, she always comes in on Wednesday's. We shall see. I just want to see what happens and how she acts. I don't even care if she is off with me because then I know her compliments were just some drunken crap not to be taken seriously.

 

[SofiasMami]

Good for you for having a nice conversation with your customer! Even though she's married, it's a great dress rehearsal for talking with single women.
Keep us posted!

-Teresa

 

[Triple Bogey]

Good for you for having a nice conversation with your customer! Even though she's married, it's a great dress rehearsal for talking with single women.
Keep us posted!

-Teresa

still not seen the lady who paid me all the compliments. She was a regular customer as well. I wonder - is she avoiding the place out of embarrassment ? Surely not ?

 

[SofiasMami]

Good for you for having a nice conversation with your customer! Even though she's married, it's a great dress rehearsal for talking with single women.
Keep us posted!

-Teresa

still not seen the lady who paid me all the compliments. She was a regular customer as well. I wonder - is she avoiding the place out of embarrassment ? Surely not ?

Naw, I doubt it. Maybe she's on an extended holiday (hard to believe New Year's was just last week) or maybe for a variety of other reasons.

-Teresa

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

Just relax. If she really does like you, you can't go wrong with her.

 

[Triple Bogey]

I am pretty cool about it but I am curious to know how she will be next time she comes in !