Accountability Reaps Rewards

[Innersky23]

When we discover there’s something going wrong in life, we have two choices. The two choices are as follows:
1.) Complain and Blame
2.) Change
Ultimately beating yourself up about a situation will create more of the same in the future, therefore attracting the very same situations that you beat yourself up over…continuing the vicious cycle of frustration and anger.

Instead of this approach, why not ask, “How can this situation serve me?” In other words, if things don’t go right, you can pull one good thing out of that experience. So instead of focusing on the wrong, you can focus on what you can take away from that experience that will help you next time.
In the larger scheme of things, if you think your problems are “out there” then you ‘ll continue to look “out there” for the solutions. Keep in mind that if you blame someone else for your problems then THEY have to change in order for you to be happy and have what you want. Reality Check----It never works!


Unfortunately, many people take this victim road and end up in a big ditch. Instead of being the victim be accountable. In fact, put accountability on steroids, and realize that success and happiness will come when you take accountability for EVERY single thing in your life…and that means everything…even when you think it’s not your “fault”. The greatest results only come when you become accountable for everything in your life.

 

[Lonesome Crow]

It was my chioce and decision to be with Sassy again.
Knowing what I know about her or the condition she's in.
I simply didnt walked into a situation with her blinded or ignorant.
I took that risk for me. For us. For our family.
There's no garantee in life.
I biggest risk I'll ever take is not to take a risk with her again and again.lol
The pains of having to go on with my life without her is unbearable at times.

I blame no one. Not even Sassy....

I know my happiness is in my own hands.
It donst always have to be that harsh nor direct.
Not always easy to apply all these things with people I hold close to my heart.
Never the less...the reality of it all.

Kimi loves her mother. If theres anything more in life she wants is her mother.
It's not easy for her to tell me these things. She donst hate her mother.

We're not the mother fucken Brady Bunch....

Simple living tools you can apply when reality is checking on ya..getting accountiable at the core.
Listen closely to how she mentions about the harsh reality of it all.
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[Gutted]

Lol That is some giant text right there. I see the OP's point but It can be fun playing the victim for a bit

But yeah. At the end of the day we all eventually have to take action ourselves to sort out our problems. Just need the right things to happen so that we can do that~

 

[hopsfox]

@gutted "fun playing the victim for a bit"? don't see the fun. Could you elaborate?

 

[Lonesome Crow]

@gutted "fun playing the victim for a bit"? don't see the fun. Could you elaborate?

Playing the victim has it's payoffs. I dont have to be accountible
or responsible. There's always going to be someone somewhere
with lots of compassion and pity.