Age, Dating & Friendships

[Nina]

Oh Jeesh... ^^^ Lonesome Crow is dating a 20 yr. old..... I hope you told the poor girl you're only about 16 at heart.....and well....maybe another key spot as well... Can I watch CTF go after you? I'll bring popcorn!!

Sophi, beware...Lonesome will lead you right down the path of naughtiness and mayhem...but if that's what you want..run with it, and have fun, every step of the way!!

 

[Lonesome Crow]

mmm..she's not looking to be a house wife and I'm not looking to be her husband.
We both got screwed in that department.
There's a lot more love and understanding than people might think.
Our relationship is working at the moment as it is. Not sure if it will evolve into thing anymore.
I don't expect more out of her nor dose she of me. Just going with the flow.
She thinks I'm very sweet though. i know I am
Yes...*** is amazing with her. i feel like a 19 year old kid in a candie store.
I'm more sexually mature than she is at somethings...I love turning her on and feeling her get off.
Aside from the ***...we have things in common. The type of music we listen to for instance.
I can crank up my stereo and she'll know the words to the songs.
Our friendship and understanding plays a big part in the relationship more than anythings else.

 

[Nina]

Lonesome---I'm a firm believer in being happy and having some fun and if it's working out well for you and her...RUN WITH IT!!
Anyone you can crank the tunes with is ok in my book!

 

[SophiaGrace]

No comment.

 

[Nina]

((Sophi)) At 42 I've come across a lot of stuff in my years and one of the things I saw was a 30 year old co-worker of mine being married to a 55 yr. old man and they have, to this day, a great marriage. He's fit and all his basic "parts" are still humming along just fine...

It struck me when I first got to know them that if he passed away, way before her, how heart broken she'd be. BUT...maybe the joyful years they're sharing would compensate for it. I've known this couple for almost 10 years and they're still going strong and happy. In that 10 years I've sadly seen a number of younger folk pass on....I no longer worry about who's going to leave who, because none of us know for sure how long we have. They're happy NOW and that's all that really matters.

I think as long as no one is being abused, and no laws are broken then, what-the-heck....As long as it's all good for them, it's all good for me too. That might make me "liberal" with a capital "L"...so be it....I gotta be something, might just as well be that!

 

[tehdreamer]

I think we all have daddy or mommy issues;

1. You have great parents and seek out partners who carry the same qualities you admire in your parents.

2. You have rat basterd parents and seek out anyone who's the opposite of your parents.

3. Some combination of 1 and 2.


If being with someone who's a certain age makes you feel sick or uncomfortable, then don't be with them. That's your right. You have an extremely valid reason for feeling that way.

I can't date anyone who's 18 or 19 because that's just too young for me and the idea makes me feel eww. I can't date anyone who's 40+ because I automatically see them as a "father figure" and not as a equal so that's squicky to me as well. That's just the way my brain works.

Everyone has a preference. Even if it's not for age, it's for something else.

 

[eris]

SophiaGrace - I was reading the new replies, and I remembered something that happened to me at your age.

At 21 I went out a lot, and there was a man I kind.of.knew that was giving me obvious signals, so he drove me home that night and we had ***. It was AWESOME

a few days later, I foud out he was 35!!!! OMG that old !

Well, he gave me a ride home more than a few times, if you know what I mean. I liked it but I thought it was weird that he was so old. He looked mid twenty-ish. And he was in a band, so that sealed the deal for me.

Now, at 30...35 is not so old. I know I said 45 is the limit in my previous post, but it really is all relative. Some 40 yr olds are too old, and at 50 hugh laurie is still really hot. No one even knows I am even near 30 unless I tell people. My looks really havent changed at all, yet (for better or worse) and I just got asked if I was over 18 by the tattoo guy.

Age is all relative after 21 or so.... I still say that people under 20 may have a better time with people their own ages, though.

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