Another location thread.
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Well, I always dream about moving on to another place. And a new country... Oh the possibilities seem endless.
I think it's kind of a "grass is greener on the other side" mentality, though. From my experience, it's always been very difficult for me in new places if I don't have any friends who are already there. Unless you are a really social person or perhaps you are going to a job where there are plenty of people to meet, you'll inevitably run into some challenges (not that staying where you are is much better if you aren't happy there).
Good luck if you do choose to pack up and move on. I definitely will always think about it.
I think it's kind of a "grass is greener on the other side" mentality, though. From my experience, it's always been very difficult for me in new places if I don't have any friends who are already there. Unless you are a really social person or perhaps you are going to a job where there are plenty of people to meet, you'll inevitably run into some challenges (not that staying where you are is much better if you aren't happy there).
Good luck if you do choose to pack up and move on. I definitely will always think about it.
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Luna
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Humm hi, there. Yeah! lol Always that i moved from city/country i had luck . If you change the country where you live people will no you are not from there and this already makes you special, different. I can have many brazilian guys, i just need to open the door to see a bunch of them. But an american or whatever is rare, diffferent, special and we all like news.
Ohhh yeah!!! Make a friend in the city/country before move. The city is not a big deal but if the country has another language, you are going to need help.
Ohhh yeah!!! Make a friend in the city/country before move. The city is not a big deal but if the country has another language, you are going to need help.
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Bluey
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Nat, I moved to a place that was not that far away from where I am and even where I come from. I can tell you though even though it was not that far away it was one of the most lonely times of my life. It was a bit out the way but the ppl there was like if your not from here where going to isolate you. Some ppl tell me the place where I live in now is the same for them. Well am from here where I live now so I have never found that. I distance myself from the ppl I know cos I don't fined them to be good ppl. But by moving I think you would just probably be trying to run away from your problems. This never works and only well make things weirs in the long run and for me it just made me moor isolated then I already am. Be for I moved to that place I had a flat in town. It was not a very good place to live. I moved to the other place and moved from there only after a year and a half. I have been living here for 6 years now and this place is good just I live on my own witch is not good. I have been on my own for over 12 years now ever since I moved out of home and its sucked all the time. I myself think about taking of the the coast to live about 2 hours drive away but I think like I have just told you I would see no one at all. At least here I still do see the odd person and can go out if I like even though its with ppl that are not good ppl but I never lie to my self in what kinder ppl there are. I know its bad but they just wont a drinking buddy and I use them just as much as they use me.
OMG That turned into a right old rant lol
OMG That turned into a right old rant lol
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Luna
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Bluey!! Come on!! You cant be unlucky like that!!! The last time i moved i got a guy interested on me in the first day/hours i was there. He was the son of the apartament owner. And he even used to go there to change the shower for me and kill anything alive that was not me or my dogs ^.^ My mom tells me to go to the church and get some of that water, you know? When im with bad luck. If you need, i can send some for you. Its just a **** bad luck. I love moving and its always good. I always make new friends and all. Maybe its cause i smile even when im sad, dunno... but i think that the wwater from the church helps lol
Blue Sky
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I think that if someone was to move to a new city or even country and you didn't know anybody there it could be a real challenge, specially if you suffer from loneliness. But who knows, you can achieve many things in life if you really try.
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Bluey
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Luna said:
LMAO at that post... Ye I am just that unlucky lol.... Well the fist time I moved I was a bit moor lucky as I made a friend. But she was only that a friend. I lived there for 5 years and it was in town but not the sort of place you wont to grow old in if you get me.
hah Holley water lol Are you a church go-er? Well that water well do just fine thank you
Whatever dose the trick. I like moving just not the cost thats involved in moving lol Well I did not make one single friend with that move I made. I am happy about where am living just not with the friends I have.
I tell you what tho. That smile well get you a long way. Some days I don't feel like smiling but do anyway and it dose make you feel better
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Luna
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Lol no way!!! Im more like a vampire. I hate churches and i dont go there, just to get the water lol last time i went to one was cause the mom of one of my bfs (ex) died and lol when i left it to go home, my mom said: what we do for love, huh??? I always liked wicca and i read tarot and all that stuff but i realized that it scares the good guys away so dont tell anyone, ok? =X
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Bluey
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Skorian said:EAK WITCH!!! RUN AWAY!!! J/k
What spells can you cast?
Turn him into a frog lol
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Luna
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lol haha lol You guys are silly lol
Nah! If i could, i would not turn him into a frog! I would turn him into a prince x) *.* lol
Nah! If i could, i would not turn him into a frog! I would turn him into a prince x) *.* lol
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Bluey
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Luna said:
lol your sweet I would still turn him into a frog
@ Skorian
frog haha
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Luna
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Bluey said:lol your sweet I would still turn him into a frog
@ Skorian
I know i am sweet
Bluey said:Luna said:
LMAO at that post... Ye I am just that unlucky lol.... Well the fist time I moved I was a bit moor lucky as I made a friend. But she was only that a friend. I lived there for 5 years and it was in town but not the sort of place you wont to grow old in if you get me.
hah Holley water lol Are you a church go-er? Well that water well do just fine thank you
I like moving just not the cost thats involved in moving lol Well I did not make one single friend with that move I made. I am happy about where am living just not with the friends I have.
I tell you what tho. That smile well get you a long way. Some days I don't feel like smiling but do anyway and it dose make you feel better
In the words of Albert King,
"If I didn't have bad luck, I wouldn't have no luck at all"
Either way I'd probably move to the US on a Blues Pilgrimage.
I have tons of family all over the east coast, Most of which I've only ever met once. But I even have fellow musician family there with recording studio access.
Im just worried that leaving therapy and my few friends would be bad. But the possibilities and opportunities near counteract that.
