"you rang" came from the Adams family... someone would pull a noose and then Lurch the butler would come and say... "you rang", in a deep monster voice! lol
I think that is like saying gays don't get showers. Of course they do. Gays are people, just like you and I.
I don't understand why which gender you'd rather **** comes into this at all - or why it even matters - I swing both ways and feel lonely at times. It doesn't matter whether you like an innie or an outie, I'm sure we all feel similar emotions/feelings of loneliness. Being gay wouldn't make you immune to that, I'm sure.