Triple Bogey said:
Sending a lady a bunch of flowers ?
Sending a lady a letter ?
Ringing her up
When she hasn't openly giving you her address or telephone number ?
I think it is great. My love ( died of cancer) won my heart that way. He wanted to go out with me. I think friends would best is what I told him.When he had free time he liked to go out on his motorcycle ( a small sportster) . He used to go out on the bike. He would drive by and leave small gifts on my porch. It was supposed to be a drive by gifting as he called it. I can hear your bike and it is not anonymous as you claim. He said he he just couldn't help it. He thought of me when he was on the bike out being free so he would stop get a gift and leave it for me. Yes, of course he wanted me to know.
I finally did consent. Later he bought a bike for us. A full dresser, a Harley. I had so much fun I never considered a guy on motorcycle. I didn't consider not talking to guy just because he is on a bike. My "stalker" took me to a world of smart educated people who belonged to a motorcycle club. I still get a feeling when I hear motorcycles going up the road where I live. I still laugh at the funny little gifts deposited on my porch.
A small gift or surprise would get my vote.