Maybe I am picky.. not sure.. lots of sorts of people scare me.. I do not dislike most people, just they are scary, and difficult to become comfortable with. There is only very specific a sort of person I can become comfortable with, and not many of them I met before.
But, sex of a person does not matter to me at all.
Some personalities can scare me off too. Like too hyper/happy it's either overwhelming or I fear they will find me boring cause I'm not being hyper in return.
I don't know if I'm really picky. I like people and I like hearing their stories, but I rarely open up myself to a lot of them. It's not because I don't want to, it's just that there are certain kinds of people I find easy to open up myself with, to talk to and not feel awkward. I guess that would seem as I am picky.
on the second question, I make friends with girls better in real life than online. and I make friends with guys better online than in real life.. wonder why.