user 188522
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That's because many people do NOT do things right unless they know they will be checked upon.I find it hard to trust people to do things right. I want to keep a check on what's going on..lol
That works while you are young. But, just plan on improving your eating habbits.My worst habit is probably my poor eating choices. Don't get me wrong, I don't overindulge or eat too much, I'm a marathon runner and train like crazy all the time, I'm super thin, lean and fit, don't drink alcohol, etc...but, I eat crap lol. Waaaay too many chips and sweets, very little veggie's and fruit, not enough water, take zero vitamins and so on. Basically I rely on my training and have convinced myself that's good enough to keep me healthy instead of INCLUDING a proper nutrition diet to go with it. I know it's wrong yet I don't seem to care. Bad policy/poor habit.
Thanks for your reply. It's not a checklist. The filters are actually the lesser of the problem. I believe the most important quality in a partner is their ability to recover from an argument with greater understanding and respect. After that, the next most important qualities are whether you feel attracted and whether they make an effort to participate in your interests. Everything else is noise. Humor will develop naturally as we get to know each other.That’s funny because some of the women are doing the exact same thing. Is this filtering like a checklist you go through. Nice eyes, nice ass,...check check
Funny, sweet....check check.
I’ve known females like these. They are never in long term relationships. Maybe I don’t understand what you want to stop but gut reaction is if you are making a checklist, I’d stop that for sure. You are only hurting yourself by ‘filtering’. Sometimes we don’t know what’s best for us. It seems simple to me.
You're probably right. I'm known for overthinking things. Do you want to share about your marriage situation?I’ve actually had a male friend who wanted more than a friendship and when I said I want interested it was him that took a little time to come around to the idea of just friends. I didn’t reject him as a person I just wasn’t interested in a romantic relationship. Then I’ve been on the other side where I was totally into a guy who just wanted to be friends. We worked it out. Maybe you are just thinking too deeply about it. Besides, I don’t know what’s like to be you in your situation. I’m 43, a woman, haven’t dated in 10 years, and still legally married to my husband who is currently married to someone else. Ignore me.
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