Bullies

[jonboy4u]

Hello everyone now here is a taboo subject if ever there was one!,we only ever talk about these kind of people when some poor sole usually some youngster takes their own life becouse some lowlife makes their life hell,but it dosent end there we have bullies in work places,no this isent just what teenagers put up with!,becouse the reasons why youngsters are bullied at school is becouse they are draged up by inadaquate wannabe parents they shouldnt be allowed to own a dog let alone attempt to bring up brand new human beings,the ironic thing is that it's not the bullies fault!,it's the parents/parent who are the dissfunctional ones causing others distress,now i called this subject earlier a taboo which it is becouse depending on which part of the globe that you are reading this post from maybe in your culture bullies might be dealt with the propper way,possibly with electric shock therapy but here in the uk people never talk about the cowards that hide in society that bullie our youngsters in schools and then go into workplaces and then bully adults ,it's just not talked about in a serious manner as if it's something that we have no choice but to live with,here in the uk our cowards and bullies work in arears such as the security industry to legitimize the bulling and targeting of members of the public these scumbags throw drunks out of nightclubs at night then think that they are the big man standing in a supermarket or jobcentre during the day employing the same kind of bullie boy tactics they are easy to spot they all have to many biceps and not enough brain cells,anyway thats what i think.john

 

[EveWasFramed]

To clarify, according to what you just said, you're blaming the parents of the victims for bullying?? Am I reading that correctly? "The reason youngsters are bullied at school is because they are dragged up by inadaquate parents...." (quoting you there)

 

[jonboy4u]

To clarify, according to what you just said, you're blaming the parents of the victims for bullying?? Am I reading that correctly? "The reason youngsters are bullied at school is because they are dragged up by inadaquate parents...." (quoting you there)

the parents/parent themselves have bullied the child in the home thus creating a bully and then havent bothered to teach them the meaning of compassion and so as a consequence they dont know how to communicate with other children other than by bullying them,and yes i would say that the parents of bullies are inadaquate bullies themselves,it's a vicious circle.

 

[LoneKiller]

To clarify, according to what you just said, you're blaming the parents of the victims for bullying?? Am I reading that correctly? "The reason youngsters are bullied at school is because they are dragged up by inadaquate parents...." (quoting you there)

Hi Eve.

Maybe he means that the parents who aware that their children are bullying others, aren't disciplining them enough to have them back away from picking on others. Especially when those poor souls who end their life due to the incessant bullying. If I were a parent of a bully who's victim killed themselves because of it, I would be crushed with guilt for not being strict enough in trying to prevent it. I think that's what he means. Not sure.

 

[EveWasFramed]

To clarify, according to what you just said, you're blaming the parents of the victims for bullying?? Am I reading that correctly? "The reason youngsters are bullied at school is because they are dragged up by inadaquate parents...." (quoting you there)

the parents/parent themselves have bullied the child in the home thus creating a bully and then havent bothered to teach them the meaning of compassion and so as a consequence they dont know how to communicate with other children other than by bullying them,and yes i would say that the parents of bullies are inadaquate bullies themselves,it's a vicious circle.

No...read what I wrote and what I quoted you saying. You said that it was the parents of the VICTIM who were to blame for the victim getting bullied. Is that not what you meant when you typed it?

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To clarify, according to what you just said, you're blaming the parents of the victims for bullying?? Am I reading that correctly? "The reason youngsters are bullied at school is because they are dragged up by inadaquate parents...." (quoting you there)

Hi Eve.

Maybe he means that the parents who aware that their children are bullying others, aren't disciplining them enough to have them back away from picking on others. Especially when those poor souls who end their life due to the incessant bullying. If I were a parent of a bully who's victim killed themselves because of it. I would be crushed with guilt for not being strict enough in trying to prevent it. I think that's what he means. Not sure.

Perhaps that's what he meant, but it's not what he said in that bit I quoted.

 

[bodafuko]

I have no use for bullies. And yes, I absolutely hold the parents of the bullies responsible for their behavior. If you actually parent your child - teach morals, display morals, monitor and supervise behaviors, create consequences - both positive and negative - for behaviors, and put controls in place to stop things before they escalate - you will NOT raise a bully.

If, however, you are a lazy piece-of-**** that allows the tv, rap music, friends, and "the streets" to raise your child, you are a failure and your child may end up bullying others out of a lack of guidance and structure - which are perceived as "love" by children.

 

[LoneKiller]

To clarify, according to what you just said, you're blaming the parents of the victims for bullying?? Am I reading that correctly? "The reason youngsters are bullied at school is because they are dragged up by inadaquate parents...." (quoting you there)

the parents/parent themselves have bullied the child in the home thus creating a bully and then havent bothered to teach them the meaning of compassion and so as a consequence they dont know how to communicate with other children other than by bullying them,and yes i would say that the parents of bullies are inadaquate bullies themselves,it's a vicious circle.

No...read what I wrote and what I quoted you saying. You said that it was the parents of the VICTIM who were to blame for the victim getting bullied. Is that not what you meant when you typed it?

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To clarify, according to what you just said, you're blaming the parents of the victims for bullying?? Am I reading that correctly? "The reason youngsters are bullied at school is because they are dragged up by inadaquate parents...." (quoting you there)

Hi Eve.

Maybe he means that the parents who aware that their children are bullying others, aren't disciplining them enough to have them back away from picking on others. Especially when those poor souls who end their life due to the incessant bullying. If I were a parent of a bully who's victim killed themselves because of it. I would be crushed with guilt for not being strict enough in trying to prevent it. I think that's what he means. Not sure.

Perhaps that's what he meant, but it's not what he said in that bit I quoted.

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You have heard of children especially females, that become promiscuous at an early age due to sexual abuse when they were much younger. I believe he feels the same way works with a child turning into a bully because his or her parents mistreating them by being violent.

 

[jonboy4u]

To clarify, according to what you just said, you're blaming the parents of the victims for bullying?? Am I reading that correctly? "The reason youngsters are bullied at school is because they are dragged up by inadaquate parents...." (quoting you there)

I'm not blaming the parents of the victims,i'm blaming the parents of the perpetrators,if youre gonna quote me please try to get it right.

the parents/parent themselves have bullied the child in the home thus creating a bully and then havent bothered to teach them the meaning of compassion and so as a consequence they dont know how to communicate with other children other than by bullying them,and yes i would say that the parents of bullies are inadaquate bullies themselves,it's a vicious circle.

No...read what I wrote and what I quoted you saying. You said that it was the parents of the VICTIM who were to blame for the victim getting bullied. Is that not what you meant when you typed it?

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To clarify, according to what you just said, you're blaming the parents of the victims for bullying?? Am I reading that correctly? "The reason youngsters are bullied at school is because they are dragged up by inadaquate parents...." (quoting you there)

Hi Eve.

Maybe he means that the parents who aware that their children are bullying others, aren't disciplining them enough to have them back away from picking on others. Especially when those poor souls who end their life due to the incessant bullying. If I were a parent of a bully who's victim killed themselves because of it. I would be crushed with guilt for not being strict enough in trying to prevent it. I think that's what he means. Not sure.

Perhaps that's what he meant, but it's not what he said in that bit I quoted.

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[EveWasFramed]

Apparently, you guys aren't really paying attention to what I'm asking, so I will QUOTE the OP:

... the reasons why youngsters are bullied at school is becouse they are draged up by inadaquate wannabe parents they shouldnt be allowed to own a dog let alone attempt to bring up brand new human...

THAT cleary states that the reason youngsters are bullied (the victims) at school is because they are dragged up by inadequate wannabe parents.
My question was, am I reading THAT statement correctly.
THAT statement, not the rest of what he said.

 

[jonboy4u]

I have no use for bullies. And yes, I absolutely hold the parents of the bullies responsible for their behavior. If you actually parent your child - teach morals, display morals, monitor and supervise behaviors, create consequences - both positive and negative - for behaviors, and put controls in place to stop things before they escalate - you will NOT raise a bully.
Thankyou for that post,if you have children it's becouse you should!,you have just said it all really and its morals all the way!,no morals no life,you sound quite an intelligent person,and did you say Rap or crap i get the two mixed up.
If, however, you are a lazy piece-of-**** that allows the tv, rap music, friends, and "the streets" to raise your child, you are a failure and your child may end up bullying others out of a lack of guidance and structure - which are perceived as "love" by children.

 

[bodafuko]

Thankyou for that post,if you have children it's becouse you should!,you have just said it all really and its morals all the way!,no morals no life,you sound quite an intelligent person,and did you say Rap or crap i get the two mixed up.

Rap, Crap, Synonymous.

I was bullied as a child. Bullied by classmates. Bullied by an older brother and older sister. Bullied by my own father. Abandoned at an early age multiple times and left alone as young as age five in a house full of teenagers coming and going, basically physically and psychologically abusing me.

I have no use for bullies. I'm sorta like SlingBlade that way.

 

[jonboy4u]

Apparently, you guys aren't really paying attention to what I'm asking, so I will QUOTE the OP:

... the reasons why youngsters are bullied at school is becouse they are draged up by inadaquate wannabe parents they shouldnt be allowed to own a dog let alone attempt to bring up brand new human...

THAT cleary states that the reason youngsters are bullied (the victims) at school is because they are dragged up by inadequate wannabe parents.
My question was, am I reading THAT statement correctly.
THAT statement, not the rest of what he said.

The reasons why youngsters are bullied at school is becouse they the bully are draged up by inadaquate parents,i hope this clarifies and clears up any misunderstanding.

 

[bodafuko]

I do have a child. Whenever the subject of bullying comes up, I say the same thing:

"You never know who you are ******* with. (Long Pause) So it's best not to **** with people."

 

[EveWasFramed]

Apparently, you guys aren't really paying attention to what I'm asking, so I will QUOTE the OP:

... the reasons why youngsters are bullied at school is becouse they are draged up by inadaquate wannabe parents they shouldnt be allowed to own a dog let alone attempt to bring up brand new human...

THAT cleary states that the reason youngsters are bullied (the victims) at school is because they are dragged up by inadequate wannabe parents.
My question was, am I reading THAT statement correctly.
THAT statement, not the rest of what he said.

The reasons why youngsters are bullied at school is becouse they the bully are draged up by inadaquate parents,i hope this clarifies and clears up any misunderstanding.

I see. I might have noticed your earlier response also, but you typed it within the quote so it wasn't noticeable.

 

[jonboy4u]

Apparently, you guys aren't really paying attention to what I'm asking, so I will QUOTE the OP:

... the reasons why youngsters are bullied at school is becouse they are draged up by inadaquate wannabe parents they shouldnt be allowed to own a dog let alone attempt to bring up brand new human...

THAT cleary states that the reason youngsters are bullied (the victims) at school is because they are dragged up by inadequate wannabe parents.
My question was, am I reading THAT statement correctly.
THAT statement, not the rest of what he said.

The reasons why youngsters are bullied at school is becouse they the bully are draged up by inadaquate parents,i hope this clarifies and clears up any misunderstanding.

I see. I might have noticed your earlier response also, but you typed it within the quote so it wasn't noticeable.

That's ok!,no problem.

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Thankyou for that post,if you have children it's becouse you should!,you have just said it all really and its morals all the way!,no morals no life,you sound quite an intelligent person,and did you say Rap or crap i get the two mixed up.

Rap, Crap, Synonymous.

I was bullied as a child. Bullied by classmates. Bullied by an older brother and older sister. Bullied by my own father. Abandoned at an early age multiple times and left alone as young as age five in a house full of teenagers coming and going, basically physically and psychologically abusing me.

I have no use for bullies. I'm sorta like SlingBlade that way.

Whos slingblade?

 

[bodafuko]

Whos slingblade?

It's a movie about a guy who has a very visceral reaction to bullies regardless of who they are.

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Others might say it's a movie about a retard that whacks pricks in the head with a sharpened lawnmower blade. Tomato. Tomahto.

 

[EveWasFramed]

Mustard and biscuits. mmhhmmm

 

[bodafuko]

reckon

 

[jonboy4u]

I do have a child. Whenever the subject of bullying comes up, I say the same thing:

"You never know who you are ******* with. (Long Pause) So it's best not to **** with people."

I dont know where you live mate but there are just some complete arseholes out there who should not be parents,and think becouse they are the big family in the area or that they 'know people' that they or their offspring can bully people,really it's just unacceptable i mean i could curse my head off at this point,and if i did have kids and they were bullied i'd go and fight the father,and then probably get thrown in jail,at the end of the day you should be able to protect your family without fear of being put in jail.

 

[LoneKiller]

Mustard and biscuits. mmhhmmm

Mustard and Biscuits?

What the hell does that mean? lol