TheRealCallie
Princess Pink Love
The issue is I really truly don't wanna steal him, I don't want him for myself at all, its not like that.
And im just not sure what I'd be guilty of... i'm not exactly having an affair since I'm single as a Pringle...
If he wants to be unfaithful to his wife, isn't that his choice? I do things I shouldn't, but deep down the thing I need most is some help, he helps me.
Your excuses are getting weaker and weaker. Sorry, but they are. Pretty damn sure it takes TWO to cheat and since you know he's married, your relationship status is irrelevant. YOU are allowing him to cheat on his wife. And it also doesn't matter if there's actual sex involved, it's still cheating.
Also, he's not helping you, he's enabling you, which is actually the opposite of helping. In addition to that, you are using him for an ego boost and the fact that your "friend" could be completely destroyed by this seems to have no impact on you.
You're right that I started it, but I think he should stop it as I dont feel able to, it's his marriage to protect I just feel overwhelmed by my mental health at the moment, how I feel about myself, I'm not sure how easy his shoulder is for me to give up right now.
It's YOUR friendships to protect. Do you not care at all that you could lose both of them because you are being selfish? What will that do for your mental health? As I said, he's not helping you, he's enabling you.
Do what you want, but I can pretty much guarantee you that this will end badly.