MentatsGhoul
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I might have posted about this before, but basically, my flatmates have all dumped me. Beginning of the year when I first moved in was great. We got along, we had drinks together at least once a week or every few weeks. Things seemed to be, at least somewhat, looking up. Then, near the end of the first semester, they randomly stopped including me in these things, or inviting me anywhere. No idea why. At first I didn't give it much thought, because I was finishing all my assignments and was extremely busy anyway, but when I walked in on all of them having a final dinner together before Christmas break, which no one had even informed me about, I realised it was a problem. And true enough, they barely talk to me any more, and never include me in anything.
I'd be okay with this. Well, maybe not okay. It ******* sucks being thrown out of a social circle like that for no discernible reason. But if they don't like me or don't want to be my friend, then what am I supposed to do about that, they don't owe me their friendship and it's ultimately their choice who they talk to and hang out with. I've got about 3 months left to live here, so I don't want to cause any unnecessary drama. But now, they have almost daily parties in here, and they've taken to gossiping in the corridor AT NIGHT (like 1-3 AM), I can constantly hear them laughing, hear their music. It's just a constant reminder of the rejection, and it's seriously driving me insane. I can't just sit in my room and avoid them, because even then I still hear them. Could they at least have THAT much consideration? "Hey, fresia you, we're not going to hang out with you or even really talk to you any more. Oh, but you still have to listen to our shitty music and deal with our bullshit". Like what is going through their head? Nothing, that's what, they don't give a honeysuckle. I get it, it's university, people want to have fun, and I don't want to be that guy who tries to ruin it for everyone. But when you've been cut off from that, it just serves as a constant reminder of what a loser you are.
Sorry, just needed to vent about that
I'd be okay with this. Well, maybe not okay. It ******* sucks being thrown out of a social circle like that for no discernible reason. But if they don't like me or don't want to be my friend, then what am I supposed to do about that, they don't owe me their friendship and it's ultimately their choice who they talk to and hang out with. I've got about 3 months left to live here, so I don't want to cause any unnecessary drama. But now, they have almost daily parties in here, and they've taken to gossiping in the corridor AT NIGHT (like 1-3 AM), I can constantly hear them laughing, hear their music. It's just a constant reminder of the rejection, and it's seriously driving me insane. I can't just sit in my room and avoid them, because even then I still hear them. Could they at least have THAT much consideration? "Hey, fresia you, we're not going to hang out with you or even really talk to you any more. Oh, but you still have to listen to our shitty music and deal with our bullshit". Like what is going through their head? Nothing, that's what, they don't give a honeysuckle. I get it, it's university, people want to have fun, and I don't want to be that guy who tries to ruin it for everyone. But when you've been cut off from that, it just serves as a constant reminder of what a loser you are.
Sorry, just needed to vent about that