I really have no idea. I'm not so interested in the thought of a significant other at the moment; it seems so fantastical...
Assuming I had any idea what a, 'deal maker,' might be; I'll just play around with words a bit...
I'll start with the superficial for fun.
Has nice legs. (j/k, just wanted to say that; but, wouldn't complain about it
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Slightly curly and long hair, of what color, I couldn't be sure; but, the type that can sort of level a man. There's an attention to detail there, a certain pinch of personality, a slight mischievousness; but, the wholesome kind, not the kind that would risk sinking a boat or starting a fight. Primarily though, there is a mysteriousness there and a tenderness; the way looking out into the ocean makes you wonder what's beyond the horizon, while what's in front of you leaves you in awe...
Deep green eyes, like emerald windows into the soul.
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spontaneity; but, not the imposing kind that seeks to bring you along on some one else's ride. Some one who is primarily a homebody, content to be with me; but, also has a sense of adventure. The kind of sense of adventure that wants to share a journey together (of the mind or the world), not bring me along for some thing they seek or need to do on their own, whether or not some one else is involved. She coaxes me out of my shell from time to time, rather than try to break me out of it, and we both are happier for it every time.
Intellect, intuition, courage, and bravery; but, a love for things sedentary and contemplative. We don't have to go backpacking through Europe for 6 months; but, a nice get away from the usual touristy type stuff sounds appealing. Perhaps an off the beaten path, type of personality; but, not lost in the woods, so to speak...
I suppose to put it simply, some one to settle down with.
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Thinks astrology, new age, and mystical stuff has an appeal and a charm; but, doesn't take it too seriously.
Sensible; but, not stiflingly so.
Compassionate...
Has a sense for, 'aware (japanese),' the tragic beauty in things, often expressed through music.
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but, I have no idea. Perhaps I'm not ready, for any of that, and maybe never will be... I've no clue...
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A final thought came up. In some idealized fantasy; she has a cat that absolutely LOVES me, which is odd, because she rarely likes strangers, and we become best buds instantly (the cat and me). She secretly knows this means I may be the real deal; but, she does NOT let on to this at all, because the thought of it makes her wary... Things progress slowly, and one day, one of us wonders, if we are dating, and we both kind of realize, we guess we are. It's a comfortable realization, like being tired, and coming to really realize it as you slowly and gently drift off to sleep, lulled away into a pleasant dream...