Didn't do wrong but feel guilty

[Ladysphinx]

I wasn't going to post anything at first but I can't get this incedent out of my head.

My hubby and ex-bf are very good friends for years now, it was kind of weird but I got use to it in some way. Well today hubby quickly went to the shop and while away my ex showed up. While waiting for hubby to come home I gave him something to drink and kept him company. I usually don't talk to him much, cause I'm not very comfterble in his company. As we where chatting he kinda let drop that he made a mistake by ending our relationship(another long story) and that he still had deep feelings for me. The way he looked at me I know he was serious. I didn't say anything, all I could think was to make an excuse to get away out of that moment. I believe he was impling to more then just regretting the end of our relationship. I have not told hubby and was planning on never saying anything but I feel guilty. I know that I will never cheat on my husband as the thought of breaking he's heart is unbareble I love him to much. But I still do care for my ex in some way. This is more a vent then anything else.

 

[Mary Mary]

Awkward!! He should have confessed his feelings on a message board instead of burdening you with it.

 

[ShybutHi]

Awkward indeed! What he did is not a nice thing to do and is pretty selfish in my opinion. Especially considering you are married... not only that but to a longterm friend of his also.

 

[Ladysphinx]

I decided to tell hubby since not telling him makes me feel even worse. So I mustard together cuorage to tell him since I thought he's gonna be upset. I told him what happened. Hubby's reply was "I could've told you that a long time ago". I think hubby saw the puzzle on my face since I would have thought it would bother him. Hubby says that he has seen the way my ex look at me when I walk away, and quite frankly it doesn't matter cause I married him not my ex. He right since I don't think I'll ever give my ex a chance even if something should happen to my hubby. Even though I still in away care for my ex he's way too much of a douch bag to even consider. But I feel better about this whole situation since hubby offered to ask my ex not to come over unless his home, if I feel that I don't wanna be alone with my ex.
Plus it makes me feel good that hubby trusts me the way he does.

 

[WishingWell]

A great ending to an "awkward" situation!